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Or she could just be bisexual and chose a man to spend her life with. I was the same way. I am still bisexual, even if I married a man. So is your friend, assuming she was actually "gay", and was so for more than a decade. A phase is a relationship or two, not a decade or more.
She was not bisexual during those years, she was full on gay.
And then there is the exact opposite scenario. Oklahoma state senator and father of four caught in motel room with underage boy. How do you know you female friend is still not having homosexual relations on the sly?
She was not bisexual during those years, she was full on gay.
She also keeps this from kids.
My point was that she very well could be bisexual. In fact, she almost certainly is. You don't spend more than a decade dating women, and then start dating men, without being bisexual (or being one of the MANY gay and bi women in relationships with men because they want kids, or because they have been ostracized by family and community, or something like that)
Your friend is either bi or gay, and there is NOTHING wrong with that.
When someone approaches your eye with a finger, do you choose to blink because you were raised around other blinkers?
Why are some men more attracted to blondes than brunettes? Why are some men attracted to heavier women and others skinny? Lots of people like to suck on peoples toes - why? Were they born that way? Perhaps to varying degrees but human behavior is very complex. Boiling it down to 100% settled debate that everything is decided by birth is politically convenient but intellectually lazy.
and you are??? along with the "its genetic" crowd?
if it was genetic, then all pairs of identical twins would display homosexual behavior in 100% of the time..
"Choice" is a word chosen to imply there is a lack of moral responsibility for those who "choose" wrongly. It is only used to put LGBT people on the defensive.
Ignore such questions - they are baiting and trolling in the worst way. Nobody has to defend his/her life to those who are judging them.
You know, it's quite funny that we still haven't had any of the people who think it is a choice answer the question of when they made the choice, and how they made it.... Very telling, isn't it?
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