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Old 03-31-2015, 03:36 PM
 
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I'm trying to understand the emotional attachment to gay marriages here.. it seems that every 3rd post is about gays.. For a segment of the population that is so small, they sure do talk alot publicly about their relationships behind closed doors.


I've noticed that.
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Old 04-04-2015, 05:32 PM
 
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I'm trying to understand the emotional attachment to gay marriages here.. it seems that every 3rd post is about gays.. For a segment of the population that is so small, they sure do talk alot publicly about their relationships behind closed

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I've noticed that.

.......and their "friends" too.
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Old 04-04-2015, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Camberville
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I'm trying to understand the emotional attachment to gay marriages here.. it seems that every 3rd post is about gays.. For a segment of the population that is so small, they sure do talk alot publicly about their relationships behind closed doors.
None of the threads on the first page about gay marriage were started by gay people. In fact, most seem to be started by those who oppose gay marriage. Who has the obsession here?
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Old 04-04-2015, 07:15 PM
 
Location: San Antonio
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Let it go? That post you quoted was from 2008 LOL Ya might want to let it go yourself
Let what go? I don't have a problem with the form. It's people like you that are still b******* about it seven years later. Nice try. LOL
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Old 04-04-2015, 07:38 PM
 
Location: Old Mother Idaho
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Not cool.

The really big rush to the altar was not expected to take place until Tuesday, which is when most counties planned to start issuing marriage licenses to gay couples. Local officials are now required to issue licenses that have the words "Party A" and "Party B" where "bride" and "groom" used to be.


Calif. gay couples get marriage licenses - Life - MSNBC.com
Meh. Have you ever looked at old marriage records? I have. Few even use the words bride and groom. Almost all only list the names of the two people involved. Those stupid Party A and B aren't needed either.

Go back 3 centuries, and the names sometimes include the parent's names… local traditions vary. Only the royalty gave a damn.
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Old 04-04-2015, 07:38 PM
 
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It's my opinion. It cheapens real marriage to call two gays married.

I've argued the point before so I won't get into it with y'all. Have fun with it.
Laws can't effect a marriage. Only the people who are married can. If calling two gays married cheapens your marriage, what kind of a messed up marriage do you have?
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Old 04-04-2015, 07:44 PM
 
Location: Old Mother Idaho
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I'm trying to understand the emotional attachment to gay marriages here.. it seems that every 3rd post is about gays.. For a segment of the population that is so small, they sure do talk alot publicly about their relationships behind closed doors.
A few months ago, there were 32 posts running at the same time about black kids. What else is new?

If you feel the need to come out, please do so. It appears some heteros must feel the need, as they appear to get upset when the gay folks do it. Repression is funny that way.

Personally, I never felt the need to express my own proclivities to anyone. It's nobody's business but mine. I don't care about whoever either.
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Old 04-04-2015, 07:47 PM
 
Location: California
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Meh. Have you ever looked at old marriage records? I have. Few even use the words bride and groom. Almost all only list the names of the two people involved. Those stupid Party A and B aren't needed either.

Go back 3 centuries, and the names sometimes include the parent's names… local traditions vary. Only the royalty gave a damn.
True. I just got my great grandparents marriage license from 1903, in Alameda County, CA, and there is no mention of "bride" or "groom", just a place for the names.
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Old 04-04-2015, 08:30 PM
 
Location: Tip of the Sphere. Just the tip.
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Sounds to me like government has become just slightly less involved in marriage.

That's what y'all right-wingers supposedly want... right?

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Old 04-04-2015, 08:37 PM
 
Location: California
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Let what go? I don't have a problem with the form. It's people like you that are still b******* about it seven years later. Nice try. LOL
You were the one who posted a quote from 7 years ago not me, I'm pretty sure the OP let it go 7 years ago, ya might want to buy a sense of humor

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