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I have a friend who supposedly has a "good relationship" but he tracks his girlfriends whereabouts through this app that he installed into her smartphone. I don't really judge him because I feel that's just normal man behavior to want to know where your woman is at all times.
That's really not normal at all, and it's a complete violation of her trust and her privacy. She's a person, not a pet.
I've already been to a psychologist, I've had clinical depression since a young age. Ever since i've gotten into a relationship, i've been paranoid about what she does when im not around whether it be in school or just during her free time. I have a friend who supposedly has a "good relationship" but he tracks his girlfriends whereabouts through this app that he installed into her smartphone. I don't really judge him because I feel that's just normal man behavior to want to know where your woman is at all times.
This is not normal. It's called stalking. Get new friends.
Have you discussed your trust issues with your psychologist? IMHO, many trust issues reflect back. If you don't trust her because she might cheat, it's because you're capable of doing the same thing. You reflect back on her, things you might do. If you're really in a relationship, then you should know her enough to trust her. The only way for you to get over not trusting is to give her a chance to fail. You're currently having her fail without giving her a chance.
This is not normal. It's called stalking. Get new friends.
Have you discussed your trust issues with your psychologist? IMHO, many trust issues reflect back. If you don't trust her because she might cheat, it's because you're capable of doing the same thing. You reflect back on her, things you might do. If you're really in a relationship, then you should know her enough to trust her. The only way for you to get over not trusting is to give her a chance to fail. You're currently having her fail without giving her a chance.
This is entirely not true. I don't want to cheat, I've even had chances to cheat, but I didn't. Though out my life I've been back-stabbed and treated like crap, and the one time I find someone worth keeping, I start to feel like the person im with is too good to be true.
I did discuss this with my psychologist and it didn't help. She tells me Women leave their men everyday, but life goes on (something along those empty lines). That isn't going to help me whatsoever, that is why I stopped going to therapy, because it's nonsense.
I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and she has never met any of my friends. Why? because why if she likes one of them more than me? I'm not having that in my life. I know girls who've left their current boyfriends because they started crushing on their best friends. It's true that i am consumed by these awful thoughts but there isn't much I can do. I wish that I didn't have to feel like this but the fact is, I think the majority of women a sleazy in their own special way. Sorry.
I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and she has never met any of my friends. Why? because why if she likes one of them more than me? I'm not having that in my life. I know girls who've left their current boyfriends because they started crushing on their best friends. It's true that i am consumed by these awful thoughts but there isn't much I can do. I wish that I didn't have to feel like this but the fact is, I think the majority of women a sleazy in their own special way. Sorry.
Then the way you're going you shouldn't be surprised when she dumps you for someone who trusts her and doesn't want to lock her away so she'll never see anyone else. By pathologically trying to keep her you're going to drive her away.
Last edited by fleetiebelle; 01-11-2013 at 01:24 PM..
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