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Originally Posted by Siggy20
Going through a bit of that right now. I'm a bit on the introverted side.
We just made a move to another state so aside from one friend who I knew in the military, haven't really clicked yet with anyone. People are plenty friendly but seem to be caught up in their own lives. Perhaps if I worked, it would be different where I could meet folks at work.
I do okay though. I have hobbies, my trusty dog, a husband, kids. What I really do want is a good friend that is on the same wave length as I am. I do need to get out there more---volunteer, use meet up, etc. Part of it is me as well. Sometimes best friends are found accidently. I met my best friend at the library while we both were waiting for it to open many years ago.
We will be moving again within the year (when we buy a house) so everything feels very temporary.
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not necessarily. it depends on where you work
everyone at my job is almost twice my age and/or married with kids. i am single with no kids. i can't really relate to anyone.
at my other job, most people are younger, more immature, and annoying. others are also self-absorbed or caught up in their own lives.
it's not because one is unattractive, it might just be that you're not outgoing enough. i know this is my problem, but for now, i am okay with that. more friends=more drama
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