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Old 08-29-2020, 07:50 AM
 
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This is a controversial one, some would argue that yes he is because transwomen are still biologically male.

But others would argue that men are attracted to femininity and if a man who looks indistinguishable from a good looking woman makes a man aroused, then that's natural.

What do you think?
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Old 08-29-2020, 07:52 AM
 
Location: southern california
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Many in prison who regularly copulate with other men do not think they are gay
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Old 08-29-2020, 11:15 AM
 
Location: Germany
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Well if you really want to be precise, you have to go as far as the facts take you.

What does that man think? Would it be a big deal for him if that meant he was gay? If it does, does it mean he is a scared closeted gay, or is he a straight male with a specific fetish? Or is he in fact just a person that likes another person?

A cis man who gets aroused by trans people is either gay if the trans person identifies as a man, or straight if the trans person identifies as a woman. Or maybe even bisexual - a big part of the population that gets lost in cultural prejudice.

It doesn't have to do with masculinity and femininity.
Everything that exists in nature is natural.
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Old 08-29-2020, 02:29 PM
 
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This is a controversial one, some would argue that yes he is because transwomen are still biologically male.

But others would argue that men are attracted to femininity and if a man who looks indistinguishable from a good looking woman makes a man aroused, then that's natural.

What do you think?
I believe it is natural to be aroused by a good looking woman, no matter [WHAT's] under her dress.
But once a man knows it's a "transwoman" ,and he still feels aroused, then yes, he's gay.
Just my own opinion...be it right or wrong!

sex in jail is a whole different story.
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Old 08-29-2020, 05:36 PM
 
Location: Germany
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sex in jail is a whole different story.
I think sex between men/women in jail just shows even more the ridiculous amount of prejudice there is, as far as sexuality is concerned. Sex may be a biological need, but masturbation is a simple solution. When you have the choice to masturbate and think of a person of the opposite sex, but instead choose to have sex with a same sex person - well, blame it all you want on the prison, but you're definitely not as straight as you think then.
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Old 08-29-2020, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Born + raised SF Bay; Tyler, TX now WNY
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I don’t think you can jump all the way to gay. There’s a bit of a spectrum there. I’m actually not particularly attracted to trans folks sexually, but the Kinsey scale seems to place me as something like “predominantly heterosexual but having more than incidental homosexual tendencies” - in other words, lightly bisexual. There’s a lot of room between gay and straight that I don’t think we use very much of.
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Old 08-29-2020, 06:52 PM
 
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Yes.
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Old 08-29-2020, 07:09 PM
 
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Sexuality is fluid. Go with the flow.
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Old 08-29-2020, 08:01 PM
 
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What about a guy that gets aroused by hearing a rockcrusher M-22 being shifted in anger with a 427?
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Old 08-29-2020, 08:03 PM
 
Location: Born + raised SF Bay; Tyler, TX now WNY
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What about a guy that gets aroused by hearing a rockcrusher M-22 being shifted in anger with a 427?
Hm. Definitely gives new meaning to TRANSsexual, lol.
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