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Old 07-24-2010, 07:31 PM
 
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I am on again off again with my boyfriend. since the break up, he twice now has tried to blow me off last minute when we had a date. tonight he texted me that he would be out at the time i had planned to come over. i called him and he sent me to voice mail. I am angry which is rare for me. I want to continue seeing him, but i also want this to stop. (he never treated me like this when we were together, there was some disrespect at the end and I guess thats how things are going now.) please , especially men, help me with advice on how to get this back on track.
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Old 07-24-2010, 07:32 PM
 
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Move on, he is just using you and you are letting him. Move on it's over.
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Old 07-24-2010, 07:35 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Clarity.

Seems to be a commodity that is missing in our social interactions.
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Old 07-24-2010, 07:36 PM
 
Location: Simmering in DFW
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^^^yes, this is what I'd say, too.
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Old 07-24-2010, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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He's no longer a boyfriend. At best, you're his fvck buddy, at his convenience only.
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Old 07-24-2010, 07:44 PM
 
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That's his way of telling you it's over. Move on. Don't waste your time or energy on him.
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Old 07-24-2010, 07:44 PM
 
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ok, how do i get it back on track?
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Old 07-24-2010, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Southwest France
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ok, how do i get it back on track?
You can't. He's SHOWN you that he's not interested in you.

He doesn't CARE about YOU or your feelings.

He's just not into you....get it?

Keep your self respect and kick him to the curb.
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Old 07-24-2010, 07:48 PM
 
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Find someone else who respects you.
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Old 07-24-2010, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Finally escaped The People's Republic of California
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Look I don't know, BUT maybee your being a little pushy or clingy..If your trying to see him everyday, every minute, he's just needing space, and time...Give him both, plan some things with your girl friends, don't call him, let him call you. Be busy sometimes when he calls....You've set him free, If he loves you he'll return otherwise Bye Bye
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