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Old 09-27-2010, 06:52 PM
 
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You want the guy and you know it. I can only guess, but he seems to be older than you. This guy ain't going to make a move. He'll wait for you to make the move b/c he knows that at some point you will.

I think you're right. I have been in denial myself a few times and now I realize if I even CARE enough to analize it, I am obviously smitten on some level weather I know it or not yet...
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Old 09-27-2010, 09:08 PM
 
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I think you're right. I have been in denial myself a few times and now I realize if I even CARE enough to analize it, I am obviously smitten on some level weather I know it or not yet...
WTH...? I just did a double-take...Wasn't it Punky who started this thread and whom this thread is about? Where does misswee come in??
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Old 09-27-2010, 09:16 PM
 
Location: ATL with a side of Chicago
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WTH...? I just did a double-take...Wasn't it Punky who started this thread and whom this thread is about? Where does misswee come in??
I'm equally lost.
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Old 09-27-2010, 09:54 PM
 
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WTH...? I just did a double-take...Wasn't it Punky who started this thread and whom this thread is about? Where does misswee come in??
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I'm equally lost.
She was just saying that she's "been there done that", and was agreeing with the post she quoted.
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Old 09-28-2010, 06:44 AM
 
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Alright, well I invited him to come out to the bar with my boyfriend and I and some friends on sat. I told him to bring the girl hes been hanging out with. I guess I'll see if hes just looking to be friends or not.
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Old 09-28-2010, 08:32 AM
 
Location: maryland
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Can't you see that this guy wants MORE than friendship. I am leaning towards that he wants a casual relationship with you that involves sex. If you love your boyfriend stay away from this guy. He's a cheater.

I agree he is looking for a FWB.
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Old 09-28-2010, 08:45 AM
 
Location: maryland
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As some of you know I went out with a co-worker for a drink Wednesday after he had invited me to a party the Friday before. (I have a boyfriend) The whole situation was really laid back and I got the impression he just wanted to be friends. Which is totally fine because I have a ton of guy friends.

Well this Friday night he asked me to get dinner and see a movie with him. I agreed and went out. He's kind of seeing another girl but he specifically told me, after being in a 6 year relationship, he doesn't want to date anyone.

So dinner and the movie were fun. We have a lot of stuff to talk about (we hardly ever talk about work). We haven't so much as hugged so no awkward touchy-feely stuff either.

The problem is he keeps saying weird out-of-place stuff like "Its so cool that we hardly ever talk about work. I feel like I could talk to you for hours". Every night, even when hes with the girl hes been hanging out with he texts me "Goodnight. Sweet dreams. Cant wait to see you tomorrow at work".

Now I'm not the kind of person to respond to that kind of stuff so I Just say "Nite".

Can someone please explain to me what is going on with him. I'm all for having a friendship with him but this is getting a little strange.

He is looking for a little bow chicka wow wow
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Old 09-28-2010, 08:47 AM
 
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He is looking for a little bow chicka wow wow
I guess...but hes already getting some from the other girl. So why all the "effort"?
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Old 09-28-2010, 08:55 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Alright, well I invited him to come out to the bar with my boyfriend and I and some friends on sat. I told him to bring the girl hes been hanging out with. I guess I'll see if hes just looking to be friends or not.
Sounds like a foursome brewing. . . the guy just might be a genius
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Old 09-28-2010, 08:56 AM
 
Location: maryland
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It sounds like you just want the attention, which is fairly typical of younger women. There's no way on earth I would tolerate my girlfriend going out with other guys, especially if those guys were not friends with her before I knew her.

Wow do you keep a collar and leash at home with her name on it too?
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