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Old 10-22-2010, 02:00 AM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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Couples are always fighting, arguing, carrying on over stupid, petty things. I understand that money can be an issue. It's all about money in relationships these days.

Can there ever be a perfect long lasting relationship without all the nonsense?
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Old 10-22-2010, 02:14 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Couples are always fighting, arguing, carrying on over stupid, petty things. I understand that money can be an issue. It's all about money in relationships these days.

Can there ever be a perfect long lasting relationship without all the nonsense?
Can it survive without drama? Of course. Can it exist without drama? There's no such thing as a perfect relationship and drama is just life to the extreme. There's good drama and bad. Life without it is merely existance. It's how you handle it that makes or breaks the relationship.
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Old 10-22-2010, 04:49 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Couples are always fighting, arguing, carrying on over stupid, petty things. I understand that money can be an issue. It's all about money in relationships these days.

Can there ever be a perfect long lasting relationship without all the nonsense?
Um, knock on wood, but I've been with my wife for five+ very drama-free years...

We're just not interested in drama. Sometimes we snap a little at each other (again, rare), but I have absolutely NO interest in fighting with her and vicey versey.

Until the end, my last relationship was very drama-free, too...the end had some drama...but that *was* the end...
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Old 10-22-2010, 06:49 AM
 
Location: Central Virginia
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There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. All couples have disagreements and arguments.

What you want is a partner who doesn't create drama.

My husband and I are relatively drama-free.
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Old 10-22-2010, 07:16 AM
 
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Um, knock on wood, but I've been with my wife for five+ very drama-free years...

We're just not interested in drama. Sometimes we snap a little at each other (again, rare), but I have absolutely NO interest in fighting with her and vicey versey.

Until the end, my last relationship was very drama-free, too...the end had some drama...but that *was* the end...
For a moment I thought that read 'Sometimes we slap a little at each other...'

Sheesh

Anyway, I'm another 5+ years drama-free relationship. We have had a lot of things happen, moved to another country, my Dad died, family things, stressors etc, but we handled everything well.

Drama-free is a wonderful place to be
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Old 10-22-2010, 07:28 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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The less drama the better. In over 10 years, we've had very little drama, except imposed by external circumstances, and we've generally faced that together as a team. We rarely argue, and dislike it when it happens, so we tend to resolve things quickly. We much prefer peace, tranquility, and hot sex. Drama usually interferes with hot sex!
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Old 10-22-2010, 07:37 AM
 
Location: Northern Virginia
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I'd wager that a relationship is more apt to survive without drama, than with it.
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Old 10-22-2010, 08:06 AM
 
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I'd wager that a relationship is more apt to survive without drama, than with it.
I will agree with this.

There are Drama Kings and Queens that can suck a relationship to death. Always making waves with the boat as if to say it's to dang peaceful out here by the lake...I'm going in and kick the dog or something!!!

There are all sorts of people out there. Find the one that cares about keeping the peace. Avoid the ones that will confront anyone just to start drama.
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Old 10-22-2010, 08:45 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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Couples are always fighting, arguing, carrying on over stupid, petty things. I understand that money can be an issue. It's all about money in relationships these days.

Can there ever be a perfect long lasting relationship without all the nonsense?

I was married for almost 30 yrs without drama.So yes they can survive without drama.My marriage was perfect but no drama.I guess we acted too much like adults for there to had been any.

The relationship I'm in now has some drama but not on my end.I'm perfect.LOL
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Old 10-22-2010, 08:50 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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I'd wager that a relationship is more apt to survive without drama, than with it.
^^^ Very true!!
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