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Old 11-05-2010, 12:51 PM
 
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If the only time you get the guts to call a girl is when it is a drunken dial, then does it mean you are scared of us when you are sober? Does it mean you are loking for one thing?

Also, he does the tounge tied thing at the begining of the night, and by midnight he is finally able to talk to me...... this has been going on for MONTHS now.... what is the big deal? he should be over it by now shouldn't he? Why won't or can't he talk to me when he is sober?

He only drinks a few times a month.

We are just gonna never get ANYWHERE if he dosen't loosen up.......

How do we break this habit?

Should I just write this guy off??
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Old 11-05-2010, 12:53 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Seriously misswee....You really have to ask
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Old 11-05-2010, 12:55 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Alright, another misswee thread! It's been too long,I need my drama-thread fix.

But seriously, here is my theory: he is intimidated by your youthful beauty and is so afraid of messing up, he must knock down a few drinks before calling you.
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Old 11-05-2010, 01:08 PM
 
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He just wants to get laid. As for a relationship in this scenerio you've laid out here....I can't stop laughing due to knowing so many women who have the drunken dialer in their midst.
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Old 11-05-2010, 01:16 PM
 
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Is this for real ?

If so, how intimidating are you ?
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Old 11-05-2010, 01:27 PM
 
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If the only time you get the guts to call a girl is when it is a drunken dial, then does it mean you are scared of us when you are sober? Does it mean you are loking for one thing?

Also, he does the tounge tied thing at the begining of the night, and by midnight he is finally able to talk to me...... this has been going on for MONTHS now.... what is the big deal? he should be over it by now shouldn't he? Why won't or can't he talk to me when he is sober?

He only drinks a few times a month.

We are just gonna never get ANYWHERE if he dosen't loosen up.......

How do we break this habit?

Should I just write this guy off??
I can relate to your bf. I am so scared of women I can only talk to them when drunk. I could not even post to the Internet when answering a guy (FBI) pretending to be a underage girl without the liquid courage. After years of intensive therapy of talking to women images in magazines I have finally broken the vicious habit. I am now able to post to real women (I hope) without first reaching for the bottle!

You might recommend to your bf that he joins BB (Booze&Broads) where they have a 3 drink method of controlling his addiction. There are many local chapters that exist under the "Hooters" brand name. Here professional staff members work with guys like your bf to overcome their illness.

Good luck and do not give up! There is a cure.
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Old 11-05-2010, 01:30 PM
 
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Should I just write this guy off??
You should have done that long ago.
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Old 11-05-2010, 01:58 PM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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Alright, another misswee thread! It's been too long,I need my drama-thread fix.
But not nearly as fun as the TVSG threads!
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Old 11-05-2010, 02:01 PM
 
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Seriously misswee....You really have to ask
Misswee asks about everything.
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Old 11-05-2010, 02:26 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Misswee asks about everything.
It must be a sheltered life in the movie industry.
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