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Old 11-08-2010, 09:57 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Don't tell her she is cute.
I have to agree with you.
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Old 11-09-2010, 12:12 AM
 
Location: SWUS
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I probably wouldn't have REALLY said that right off the bat, sheesh.. just floating ideas here. Anyways, you guys crack me up sometimes with the responses.

She wasn't there tonight though :S
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Old 11-09-2010, 12:32 AM
 
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She gets concessions and tickets.. I was thinking that as I pay to just out and ask "I think you're cute, I was wondering if I could have your phone number so we can maybe hang out sometime?" or something like that.

Best thing to say?
Dude that's weak. No compliments on first meeting.

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As far as I know this girl is there on Monday nights and she's usually the only person there at the counter. She's cute (by my standards anyway.. I find tattoos and a few piercings kinda hot ) and for once I don't have to guess her age (because of said piercings/tattoos).
If I were you, I'd talk about common interests like those piercing/tats, some event you're planning to attend...but don't ask her out. Tease her a bit, make sure you project confidence, that'll take her off guard and create an opening. She'll shed her panties in no time.
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Old 11-09-2010, 12:46 AM
 
Location: SWUS
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Dude that's weak. No compliments on first meeting.



If I were you, I'd talk about common interests like those piercing/tats, some event you're planning to attend...but don't ask her out. Tease her a bit, make sure you project confidence, that'll take her off guard and create an opening. She'll shed her panties in no time.
The main goal isn't just to get in her panties. I wanna get in her friends' panties too.


Okay, that was just a joke. All joking aside, my mind is not just on getting laid. I actually like getting to know women.
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Old 11-09-2010, 09:58 PM
 
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Yeah, coffee sounds better.
What does one do if one does not like coffee ?

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Old 11-09-2010, 10:00 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Meet you in the bathroom at intermission for a quickie.
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Old 11-09-2010, 10:20 PM
 
Location: Philly Metro
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Start out by telling her 1 no 2 lies, and giving her a totally fake compliment. Sounds brilliant
Well, unfortunately, if you say "Hi, my name is...", women find you boring and uninteresting. If you say "You're cute and I'd like to take you out", you're desperate. If you're direct, they think you're creepy (love that one, every guy is creepy if he's not the image they have in their head).

Women put us in the position of having to play games. The OP can be himself and get shot down, or give a few compliments that may be exaggerations and get the girl. Your call, pal.

Oh, and women wear makeup, high heels, and fake eyelashes, but they aren't exaggerating anything. Gimme a f'in break
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Old 11-09-2010, 11:35 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Ask her, If I were to let you take me out, where would we go and would it include free popcorn with extra butter? Because I'm free Friday night.
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Old 11-09-2010, 11:51 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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I think you should make the effort. The worst that could happen is she would say 'no'. I agree with a previous poster's suggestion to drop "I think you're cute" part.
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Old 11-09-2010, 11:52 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Humor opens a lot of doors.
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