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if you're concerned you need to bring it to his attention. In my opinion if I had a teenager at home and found out my man was looking at "teen porn", I'd have serious issue with this.
Kylie....I don't understand either.....I have been trying to say.....it's not the porn issue. I don't care if he wants to watch adult porn.....it's the issue that these girls look like they are 16. I don't care if they are 25 legal ....they look 16. It just shocked me when I saw it.
I understand your concern. I think it's time you have a serious talk with him. I agree with you. I am so sorry you are going throught this. It must be so incredibly upsetting.
The OP should be a little concerned, I think, you never know if this guy is gonna push things with her daughter...
I'm not saying.... I'm just saying.
When children are involved such as the OP's daughter it is always better to be more cautious and vigilant. I'm not saying that the OP's SO is some child molester. I am just saying keep your eyes and ears open.
OP, since the girls do look like teens in the porno films AND for the fact that you do have a teenage daughter that is around him, you should tell him your concerns on the matter (if you haven't already). Watch out for any other red flags! You never know w/ some people and your first and foremost concern is the safety of your daughter.
Media....I don't know that it's child porn....I don't watch it myself. It popped up on the screen and said something about teens and showed some pictures. No he is not her biological father.....I have known and been with him for years. He knows I am aware of it.....and we will be talking tonight. And thanks to those who have mentioned concern for my daughter. Also...no other red flags....again just shocked me when I saw this on the computer.
Does teen porn (on the computer) = child porn or border line. Serious responses only!!!! He's in his 40's and checking it out.
Some background on who ever is being discussed would be helpful. So far all I can make out is that you have a teenage daughter (age?) and you know a guy that has looked at Teen porn who is 40 years old. He is not her Father. However, there is nothing else to go on. There may be a problem, there may not.
Child porn does not equal teen porn. However it does raise concern.
Actually, it's well-known that often actresses lie on their "age of consent" releases, especially in the low-brow, no-name outlets, never mind the world of amateur porn. This goes all the way back to Traci Lords making her first film at 15. Nothing has changed, and it never will.
I would talk to him about it. Creep factor aside, you don't want the FBI or the Postal Service knocking on your door. Plenty of sting sites out there, too.
Plus... Really? What kind of computer Luddite goes to a site marked "teen?" That's just asking for malware.
Plus... Really? What kind of computer Luddite goes to a site marked "teen?" That's just asking for malware.
I've had to go to customers sites and fix the computers we set up there. We have computers that are dedicated to certain functions, these guys play around on the internet and load up all kinds of malware and other crapola and render our software useless.
Ok...Urban Sasquatch thanks for your opinion but I think your making this out to be something it isn't. I'm all for being sexual til the day I die. But when I come across something that looks like she could be my daughter......it was kind of scary!!!
That's just the thing -- I have friends whose young daughters have been like my own for years. They are now entering that phase where they're not just "teens" but becoming beautiful, absolutely beautiful young women.
And when I look at them, that's all I see: Beautiful young women who are still the same little girls I watched grow up. That kind of thought doesn't even FLICKER in my brain, not for the most fleeting of instants.
But that doesn't stop me from walking through a mall, or a restaurant, and seeing what amounts to "young, ripe lusciousness" and getting that fleeting instant of thought.
I'm sorry you feel that way and yet I'll admit, I still understand it -- all at the same time. I think NOTHING of looking at an 18-year-old whom I don't know... but the second I picture someone looking at the girls who are like daughters to me I feel overwhelmingly protective and cannot escape an indignant mental how dare he?!?
It doesn't make sense, not in a logical fashion, but it still simply IS. As I said, these days I'm a lot more interested in Mom than I am any daughters, but I can at least understand the looking.
Whoever he is, if it bothers you so much it's just eating you up inside and you don't feel your own daughter is safe around him, then remove her from the perceived threat. It really is just that simple.
Just because he's checking it out, doesn't mean there's cause for concern, he's probably just curious, and there's no harm in that
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