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If you have to force someone to cuddle you I can't understand why you'd want it. If they aren't doing it because they want to, then it's a chore. He was asleep and you came to bed late and woke him up being needy. That was inconsiderate.
He apologized this morning. If you want to avoid another outburst, start compromising on the three minute rule, or at least be reasonable.
Me personally, it just sounds odd to require this three minutes of cuddling every single night regardless of circumstances. It sounds as though it's wearing thin on his nerves. Brace yourself for future outbursts.
Bingo.
You guys aren't compatible. You're needy and he just wants to..hang out.
my bf of 7 months doesn't like to cuddle in bed. so i made it a rule that he has to give me 3 mins cuddle every night before he falls asleep.
however, i went to bed late last night and he's asleep, when i came join him he's half awake, so i asked him to cuddle me he says no, i insisted that i needed it, so he snapped and yelled " I DON'T FKING CARE"
he appoligized today saying he's being a jerk. i don't know what to think? did i ask too much or we both should grow up?
Grow up. You put your want to be cuddled ahead of his need for sleep. You were inconsiderate and selfish, IMO. Nonetheless, he apologized without being prompted to do so. Let it go and learn to pick your battles.
If someone told me I HAD to cuddle with them every night for three minutes, I would leave. I don't HAVE to do anything every night. Wouldn't it be better for the affection and cuddling to be spontaneous and when he wants to do it rather than when you require it? Quit demanding affection, and you might get it more often. Your bf might be like me....I would not do something just because someone else told me to...I would be more likely to purposefully not do it, since someone told me I had to.
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