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Old 12-15-2010, 11:32 AM
 
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Actually, I think he might be thinking of his own potential future: Will a 25yo virgin be handicapped in his/her first relationship?
Spot on.

Trimac, stop wasting your own time posting these things. You obviously like social skills and is probably extremely awkward. I doubt you can hold friendships let alone relationships. I suggest you build up these skills before anything and socialize yourself.
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Old 12-15-2010, 11:35 AM
 
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Actually, I think he might be thinking of his own potential future
There are many potential futures. He might find love, he might find a nasty relationship that he would do anything to not have had. He might be kicked to death by a kangaroo in a rage. (Hopefully he was not doing anything inappropriate with it at the moment.)

If that is to be his future however he needs to understand how to cope in a reasonable way. The roads to Hell are many and wide.
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Old 12-15-2010, 11:39 AM
 
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not knowing social knowledge hinders me.
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Old 12-15-2010, 12:18 PM
 
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in my 30's never had an actual relationship. Though, im not a virgin and have been kissed by 1 guy who meant the world to me for awhile
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Old 12-15-2010, 01:21 PM
 
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If that is to be his future however he needs to understand how to cope in a reasonable way.
Which is probably why he started this topic.
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Old 12-15-2010, 01:23 PM
 
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Yes, one woman in her 40s. She's a doctor though so that could be the reason...
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Old 12-15-2010, 01:42 PM
 
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I know of one person who is "normal" I guess, but is really not interested in hooking up, but very devoted to human causes.
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Old 12-15-2010, 02:13 PM
 
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One of my best friends is a 25-year-old virgin who's never been in a relationship.
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Old 12-15-2010, 02:18 PM
 
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Hmmm what worse...being single and a virgin (later in life) OR having tasted the fruit, are now married (or in a relationship), and not having sex...id take not knowing over knowing and begin unfulfilled....I guess that's a whole other thread...
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Old 12-15-2010, 03:03 PM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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Do you personally know anyone who's reached a mature age (say 45) who was never had a relationship and/or sex with another person? Excluding people with severe mental and physical disabilities, religious convictions (nuns, priests) and extreme deformities. Especially people who seemed pretty normal but were simply never able to have a proper (more than a few dates) relationship?

I'm not saying 'lifelong virgins' specifically...I'm also interested to hear of those who still had sex (flings, prostitutes) but never had a proper gf/bf or got married.

I know two "mature" people who've never had sex. One is a male friend of mine who is 58 years old. The other is my aunt, who is 85. Maybe I should set them up on a blind date.......
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