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In many of your threads you give too much credence to being 19, as if that is the age of experience. You need to step back and realize that in the eyes of many people on this forum, you're still a child. You're very sheltered and inexperienced in life in general. Your love life, your adult life aren't over or set in stone, they haven't even started yet. You need to approach life more as "I have a lot to learn" rather than "I'm 19 and jaded because my teen years were awkward."
Even though it might not sound this way, I understand what you're trying to say. I must seem young compared to a lot of the posters. I agree that I have my whole life ahead of me. But I also have a large chunk of my life behind me. My teen years (and earlier) are all I know, so those are the only experiences I can mention on this forum. A lot of people have a good dating life during their teen years. Why do they get blessed with the gift of being a ladies man?
Since you insist things will change...might I ask what your dating life was like at 19 and what it's like now
Even though it might not sound this way, I understand what you're trying to say. I must seem young compared to a lot of the posters. I agree that I have my whole life ahead of me. But I also have a large chunk of my life behind me. My teen years (and earlier) are all I know, so those are the only experiences I can mention on this forum. A lot of people have a good dating life during their teen years. Why do they get blessed with the gift of being a ladies man?
Since you insist things will change...might I ask what your dating life was like at 19 and what it's like now
Now don't go stealing Grasshopper's thread. He gets very testy about things like that. Start your own.
So I called back and yes I left some curse words on her voicemail this morning saying she made herself sound like a fool acting like an employer.
Why would you even admit to such an act of rudeness and stupidity on the internet? Sometimes I've thought that you might not be such a bad person after all and you were just having a stretch of bad luck but this truly indicates that you have some serious problems and should probably be seeking some professional counseling.
Now don't go stealing Grasshopper's thread. He gets very testy about things like that. Start your own.
I thought my love life was intertwined with this thread since me and TVSG both have bad love lives. If anything, it should comfort him that someone else has a bad love life.
Then obviously you need to do some self improvement. This doesnt mean necessarily change everthing about your self but learn to like yourself. It's the insecurities that result in behavior like Tv Guy is doing. You arent going to attract a healthy relationship with unhealthy thoughts and behaviors. There isnt a self respecting , confident "has her act together" woman out there that will be attracted to Tv guy right now. He wants it but until he achieves it himself he will either be rejected by the ones that are there or he'll have dysfunctional relationships with the ones that arent.... like him. Until he figures that out and concentrates on improving himself , he'll just be tacking on more baggage and anger towards women that will only make his journey more difficult. Once you achieve this, rejection will not be so hard to take and you can move forward. You have to look within though and stop the blame.
It's a vicious cycle. I have an attitude of "no one wants me" but there's a reason for the attitude. No girls are into me (that I know of). I haven't always had this attitude. I used to be hopeful that I would get a girlfriend (examples: "Senior year will be better." "College will be better." etc). But I kept getting let down. Can you see why I would feel this way?
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