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clearly these women should not be getting married, if you feel the need to have a fling then you arent quite ready to settle down
Exactly. And if they're prepared to cheat on their fiance, they will probably do so to a husband also. Cheating is cheating whether you're married or not. Yes, women like this exist (as do men). Fortunately, I'm not one of them.
I had a friend that was looking for a fling before getting married but everytime she was close on doing it, she thought about her fiance. She decided not to do it.
Well, there we go AGAIN with the young generation of men and women who do the wrong thing before getting married! Bummer is, these people know exactly what they are doing and just simply don't give a cramp about the fact they are getting married! I never had a Bachelor Party cause I didn't want one. My wife had a Bridal Shower and that was totally cool with me. Actually, I had an old girlfriend call me just after I got engaged to my wife 11 yrs ago. She called to see how I was doing and wanted to possibly meet up with me again. I told her straight up that I was engaged and absolutely wouldn't meet with her and that this was the last time we would talk. She was stunned, somewhat angry and almost sounded like she was going to cry, but I repeated that I was now engaged and that was that! I told her "good luck in life and I gotta go" and we both said "goodbye". I was 51 yrs old at the time, so much older than the people on this forum. But, I was SMART......an excellent word to remember! In other words, just say "NO" to yourself or someone else when it comes to cheating before marriage.
I know of a few old friends that did a similar thing and some that still do even after being married. Of those that get caught the world seems to fall apart for them.
They should've "settled down" when they entered a long term relationship not when they were about to get married. That's cheating and their partner should leave them. The End.
I can't imagine anyone "sowing their oats" just before a marriage but it takes all kinds. I've heard of men and what they do at their own bachelor parties. Terrible is all I can say for people that go into marriage like that.
Come on. Bachelor parties, getting the groom laid or "one last BJ" before being "tied down," "one last hurrah" ... the behavior the OP mentioned is despicable but certainly not a "woman" thing.
You mentioned despicable as to their behavior. But to my behavior, I had no idea these women were getting ready to get married. I was at home minding my own business.
They should've "settled down" when they entered a long term relationship not when they were about to get married. That's cheating and their partner should leave them. The End.
Agreed. I found out just days before my wedding to my first wife that she had gone out with an ex-boyfriend "just to make sure." She swore up and down that she didn't sleep with him...."just went to for dinner." This was two days before the big wedding we had (a 300 person affair). All the money had been spent, guest had arrived and all that. With that being the case, I decided to believe her, forgive her and marry her anyway. I have to say that it nagged at me for a long time. Of course, I am thinking, "So, you weren't sure when you said yes?" I guess I was second choice in the long run. Lame.
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