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Old 12-06-2013, 04:36 PM
 
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1. Crappy to mediocre sex with 30 different women who you are not interested in getting to know further, or

2. Great sex 30 times with one woman, who you fall in love with?

Are there really guys who would choose the #1? Are any of them on this forum? If that's your preference, what do you like about it?
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Old 12-06-2013, 04:37 PM
 
Location: Northeast
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Take the great sex with one woman every time...That's the best in my experience..
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Old 12-06-2013, 04:37 PM
 
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I've always voted #2 on these threads.

But there are guys who really do want to "sow there oats" over many different women, so to speak.

Yes, there are some posters that would choose #1 here.
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Old 12-06-2013, 04:43 PM
 
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I just thought it was so weird, in another thread, when the OP was going on about how he was so jealous of a guy who had option#1 but didn't have option #2. Wut??? So I figured I should ask y'all!
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Old 12-06-2013, 04:45 PM
 
Location: Northeast
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Some guys get off on how much and who they can get..Like it's a game.
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Old 12-06-2013, 04:53 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Can we split the difference? You know, some balance?

(It also depends on where you fall in your life)
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Old 12-06-2013, 04:53 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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I think some guys think option 1 will get them option 2.
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Old 12-06-2013, 04:57 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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But seriously, I would take 2, if it became far more than 30... if it became a life partner. I've had great sex, and been in love with them, and it hurts like hell when it ends. At that point I'd choose #1. In the moment, I'd choose #2 as sex with someone I'm in love with is bliss. This is really an incomplete question. The highs of having great sex with someone you are in love with are unparalleled. The lows when it stops is also unparalleled.
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Old 12-06-2013, 05:03 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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In the past, I would elect and execute opt 2; I like variety, and besides, I can take mediocre sex and turn it into great sex

Today, I would pick opt 1, BUT still keep opt 2
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Old 12-06-2013, 05:03 PM
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1, because sex can only get better from a bad start
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