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ok you guys are right, maybe I do want a relationship and I'm just not meeting the right guys. It's hard to meet good guys nowadays. If i turn guys down they lose interest, if I have sex with them, they lose interest. I give up.
What else do you like to do with your life outside of work? Find a hobby or activity that you are passionate about. Then make friends around that. Then finally find a guy that enjoys what you like to do... besides going out with friends and getting drunk.
ok you guys are right, maybe I do want a relationship and I'm just not meeting the right guys. It's hard to meet good guys nowadays. If i turn guys down they lose interest, if I have sex with them, they lose interest. I give up.
Nope. Sorry not going to accept that. Absolutely no reason to give up. I hadn't found the *right* guy at your age either. You have lots of time. Pursue your own hobbies interests and do the things that YOU enjoy doing...you'll be far more attractive to the type of man that you do eventually want to meet.
Nope. Sorry not going to accept that. Absolutely no reason to give up. I hadn't found the *right* guy at your age either. You have lots of time. Pursue your own hobbies interests and do the things that YOU enjoy doing...you'll be far more attractive to the type of man that you do eventually want to meet.
Thank you, I think my biggest problem is the guys I pick. I like the bad boy, **shole type which in return treat me like sh*t
I'm just not as attracted to nice guys, no clue why. I honestly have never had a guy treat me well. Even my last boyfriend who I didn't sleep with till 3 months into our relationship treated me horrible in the end. I'm just sick of the game playing and mind games. I just want to know where we stand right away, I have no patience for the waiting game, which I guess some see as me being desperate but I'm not saying I want a relationship with the guy, just saying id like to get to know him better and see if MAYBE one day we could date. Guess from now on i'll just wait it out and throw their number out when they give it to me.
ok you guys are right, maybe I do want a relationship and I'm just not meeting the right guys. It's hard to meet good guys nowadays. If i turn guys down they lose interest, if I have sex with them, they lose interest. I give up.
Not to fear Jenn....just think of how good you'll feel and appreciate a really nice guy....keep positive, with positive thinking. A positive person is irresistable. The crude advances should tailor off, in the presence of full wholesome & very attractive... positive outlook. Good luck and you should feel really good about being someone who will be....very special in someones eyes one day...(hopefully of course ...this is clearly not heaven on earth)
I dont know how old you are. I am 33 and by all means would never consider sleeping around(divorced here, married for 7 years). Not only because it takes a toll in your body it messes you up mentally too. Dont give away your body like it is something without value, it is not. Love yourself. Do not give yourself away as a freebie, you are not.
so that guy sent me a text just now... saying "thanks for being cool about it lol... i hate playing games too"
no clue what to say to that, since you guys said dont ttext should i just ignore him lol
I feel he is managing his life in an imature way. I don't think hes the guy for you. the lol....is embaracment in place of communicating honesty.
He still doesn't get it. Whats cool about any of it....I will tell you....now he's concerned that you will bad mouth him to brother and friends....what a wimp. Not your feelings....so whats important to him...your feelings or...his popularity...I think this guy is a user. User's are no good for anybody...
If my sister had similar...I would tell her to text back and say....I don't think we actually think the same way about things ...thanks for your note and have a nice day
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Absolutely no reason to give up. I hadn't found the *right* guy at your age either. You have lots of time. Pursue your own hobbies interests and do the things that YOU enjoy doing...you'll be far more attractive to the type of man that you do eventually want to meet. 
