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He and i have such sparks and its easy to be around him.
we love laughing together and being togther.
but he wont stop asking how i would feel if he saw other girls. Not other serious girls just ****ing around type of thing. He has also claimed to be turned off by my small breasts and really hurts my feelings.
.... im his first real girlfriend.
Brace yourself, because this is going to sound harsh:
You're his first real girlfriend because you're the first person with self-esteem low enough and naivete high enough to put up with his b.s.
He criticizes your body and hurts your feelings, but it's easy to be around him?
He wants to bang other girls and you think you can teach him something?
The man is a douche. Get a spine and dump accordingly.
Yep, guys like this will never be able to have anything close to a stable relationship so it's better for you to dump him before he infects you with some sexual illness or breaks your heart.
I hope your very young and immature in relationships. This tool does not even deserve the title boyfriend and if you have any sense yourself, you should run as fast as you can in the other direction...if not your in for one bumpy ride.
Everyone has given you some good advice. The overwhelming opinion is that this guy is using you and you obviously deserve much better. I would advise you to dump him immediately. I'll bet he's using exactly the same line to other women that he's telling you. He only cares about himself.
Wow. this isn't exactly what I would term an open relationship. This is more like a jerk wanting to keep you around and sleep with everyone and anyone else.
Big difference in including you in some fantasies and doing this. My advice would be don't be needy and drop him. Plus, with all his background, you will be dealing with that background in some shape or form if you continue with him.
He and i have such sparks and its easy to be around him.
we love laughing together and being togther.
but he wont stop asking how i would feel if he saw other girls. Not other serious girls just ****ing around type of thing. He has also claimed to be turned off by my small breasts and really hurts my feelings. he was raised in a really ****ty home environment complete with hard drugs and beatings. He is dyslexic. In way im the complete opposite. I grew up in a sheltered environment with my single mother and private school. i feel like i can help him in a way. Its very hard to communicate with him about his feelings somtimes and he needs a while to be able to think about things.
i really want to be with this person, but the stress of dealing with the situation and worrying about my breasts and him wanting to be with other girls just for sex is really weighing down my life. sex is so casual to him. im his first real girlfriend.
Do you want to his savior?
If no then
You need to leave him and go on with your life
Agreed. He seems immature and the OP should probably break up with him.
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