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He and i have such sparks and its easy to be around him.
we love laughing together and being togther.
but he wont stop asking how i would feel if he saw other girls. Not other serious girls just ****ing around type of thing. He has also claimed to be turned off by my small breasts and really hurts my feelings. he was raised in a really ****ty home environment complete with hard drugs and beatings. He is dyslexic. In way im the complete opposite. I grew up in a sheltered environment with my single mother and private school. i feel like i can help him in a way. Its very hard to communicate with him about his feelings somtimes and he needs a while to be able to think about things.
i really want to be with this person, but the stress of dealing with the situation and worrying about my breasts and him wanting to be with other girls just for sex is really weighing down my life. sex is so casual to him. im his first real girlfriend.
My boyfreind wants to have an open realtionship.
Well good for him.
Now find your backbone, pick up your self esteem off the floor and send him on his way
i have to agree with most who have already posted. but i'd also point this out, that you sound like the nurturing type. sorry to jump to conclusions, but if that is indeed the case, i understand how you believe you can 'help' him and tolerate the inconsideration he's shown you. that will make it harder for you to decide to bail on this guy. there are other guys out there that will treat you with respect and where your nuturing sensibilities are appreciated and needed. this guy sounds like nothing but trouble... like the other poster said if the pancakes don't turn out just the way he likes them. my wife was married to a guy like that. good luck!
This one's a no-brainer. DO NOT continue a romantic relationship with him, it will bring you a world of hurt. Anyone insensitive enough to just announce that he wants to see other girls is a loser. Anyone who would announce he doesn't like small breasted women (when you are in this category), is a jerk.
It's his first relationship and he's "casual" about sex!??
RUN from this guy!
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