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Old 03-07-2011, 08:41 AM
 
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id walk away quickly
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Old 03-07-2011, 08:44 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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id walk away quickly
Why? There are other guys who are fighting to be with her. Clearly, men see her as LTR/marriage material.
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Old 03-07-2011, 08:46 AM
 
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It's the challenge. I know a guy who was able to lock her down before...at least for a little while. It seems that what all of her exes have in common is that they all had a lot of women in the picture. She once told me that her ex "could have had any girl he wanted, but he chose me."

Besides, with enough game, you could get a girl like that to fall for you, and then change up and be yourself. The particular girl in mind has a lot of great qualities that outweigh all of the other stuff I described. Plus, she's biiiiuuutiful!
I think you are a sick person. She is not an animal to lock, she is the way she is (most likely bipolar) and I do not buy the tale of religious/not promiscuos person...

Great qualities? Sound like mental disease galore (from both you and her).
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Old 03-07-2011, 08:49 AM
 
Location: Toledo
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id walk away quickly
Sounds like she is the one that needs to walk away.
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Old 03-07-2011, 08:51 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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I think you are a sick person. She is not an animal to lock, she is the way she is (most likely bipolar) and I do not buy the tale of religious/not promiscuos person...

Great qualities? Sound like mental disease galore (from both you and her).
Why the insults and righteous indignation? I didn't insult you.

I simply want to know the best strategy for getting into a LTR with a girl that I admire. It's not your place to judge me. I just want to know, given the circumstances, how this goal can be achieved.
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Old 03-07-2011, 08:52 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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This sounds like the kind of woman guys date, and then when they get dumped, they come complaining here that all women are crazy and manipulative. Read the list in the first post--what, exactly is admirable and attractive about this woman?
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Old 03-07-2011, 08:53 AM
 
Location: Toledo
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Why the insults and righteous indignation? I didn't insult you.

I simply want to know the best strategy for getting into a LTR with a girl that I admire. It's not your place to judge me. I just want to know, given the circumstances, how this goal can be achieved.
You need to be honest with her like she was with you. Let her decide if she wants to be "tamed".
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Old 03-07-2011, 08:57 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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what, exactly is admirable and attractive about this woman?
She's smart and a lot of fun to be around. She's also very pretty. And I like the fact that she has a completely different perspective on life. Should I throw out the baby with the bathwater?
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Old 03-07-2011, 08:58 AM
 
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Why the insults and righteous indignation? I didn't insult you.

I simply want to know the best strategy for getting into a LTR with a girl that I admire. It's not your place to judge me. I just want to know, given the circumstances, how this goal can be achieved.
I am not insulting you. You asked for an opinion. I think both of you are mentally not ok. Women are not animals to be tamed or lock

You seem to be a controlling individual and that girl seems to be bipolar.

Not insults here.
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Old 03-07-2011, 08:59 AM
 
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Opinions are judgements. You asked for an opinion and I gave it to you. Honestly, dude seek help. And I hope that poor girl seeks help too. The way you described she seems either borderline or bipolar.
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