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Old 03-16-2011, 10:24 PM
 
Location: WV
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I am pretty sure he came to this conclusion after having tried a lot within US itself, no one decides to come to conclusions without giving it a shot.
You can say that again!!! Just don't have any hope left here with women!

 
Old 03-16-2011, 10:25 PM
 
Location: WV
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fair enough.

Good luck. Just don't think they're not after what's in your pants. And I mean your wallet
You have your good & bad women everywhere! Just like men!
 
Old 03-16-2011, 10:28 PM
 
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You have your good & bad women everywhere! Just like men!
exactly
 
Old 03-16-2011, 10:30 PM
 
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You just proved what everyone here's been talking about, that American women are so hung up on someone's looks they don't even consider his character.
It was not only their looks that were lacking but they looked like they were socially awkward and they dressed goofy.

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Old 03-16-2011, 10:35 PM
 
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I would be very cautious, especially with eastern European women. I suspect your best bet might be India. There are educated, decent women there that would appreciate an opportunity to improve their lives. At least you wouldn't be dealing with the Russian Mafia, or the Phillipina "get green card, buy a house in CA, TX, FL, divorce, repeat" franchise. There are good women everywhere, but there are more bad than good (same with men, of course). Be cautious.
 
Old 03-16-2011, 10:37 PM
 
Location: Charlotte
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I would be very cautious, especially with eastern European women. I suspect your best bet might be India. There are educated, decent women there that would appreciate an opportunity to improve their lives. At least you wouldn't be dealing with the Russian Mafia, or the Phillipina "get green card, buy a house in CA, TX, FL, divorce, repeat" franchise. There are good women everywhere, but there are more bad than good (same with men, of course). Be cautious.
Most Indian women back in India are pretty conservative, and most of them don't want to leave their family and roots behind and go away with a Western man, and they aren't used to the life here anyway, but as I too suggested, he could look for Indian women working in US or settled here, let me tell you, there are 2 cousins of mine who married men from US, both are very happy and their kids are so beautiful.

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Old 03-16-2011, 10:44 PM
 
Location: Up North
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You just proved what everyone here's been talking about, that American women are so hung up on someone's looks they don't even consider his character.
I never thought American women were more hung up on how men look than any other women. Is there a country full of men that are so spoiled and so hung up only on superficial things? NO, so why is it that the women of America are this way?

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Old 03-16-2011, 10:47 PM
 
Location: Charlotte
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I never thought American women were more hung up on how men look than any other women. Is there a country full of men that are so spoiled and so hung up only on superficial things? NO, so why is it that the women of America are this way?
Upbringing, media created illusion, lack of moral values growing up, lack of a proper male figure to guide them and tell them what to look for in a man, peer pressure, the pressure to fit into a particular social circle, etc etc, all these things have made it thus.
 
Old 03-16-2011, 10:47 PM
 
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Maybe not but im 35 & still single! Time is not on my side here.
Yeah, it is.

Women instinctively look for a good provider/protector, and aren't as much concerned about a man's age as men are about a woman's. Even 50's is not too old if you can offer stability and security and are not an unpleasant, abusive person. Forget "liberated" western women; most of them have been raised to provide for themselves and don't really need men; they'll walk in a heart beat if things don't suit them. Why deal with that? There are 6 billion people on Earth and more than half of them are women. You have many choices and plenty of time. Choose wisely.
 
Old 03-16-2011, 10:48 PM
 
Location: WV
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Upbringing, media created illusion, lack of moral values growing up, lack of a proper male figure to guide them and tell them what to look for in a man, peer pressure, the pressure to fit into a particular social circle, etc etc, all these things have made it thus.

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