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Ok so I called him and got his voicemail. Left my number. It's all off my hands now. Guess I've never been one to play by the rules anyway, mostly because of my shyness.
Ok so I called him and got his voicemail. Left my number. It's all off my hands now. Guess I've never been one to play by the rules anyway, mostly because of my shyness.
This is so weird.
You know how girls always get ticked off when a guy never calls right away. Well, it's the same thing that you are feeling. What will I say? I'm shy...etc.
All this is such a game. Seriously. How weird.
I agree with the guy that said he gives his number cause girls get all weirded out to give their number to a stalker, creepy guy. Giving out our number should allow her to call at her convenience.
I feel like some guys who give out their numbers to women that they don't know well (or have just met) do so without expectation - so they end up giving them out to a lot of women hoping one of them would call. I have never called a guy after they gave me their number for this reason. The only reason I know what they are up to is because I see them giving out numbers to other women as well, the same night. Regardless of whether or not this is true, I think it works against guys to give the woman their number without asking for hers.
Ok so I called him and got his voicemail. Left my number. It's all off my hands now. Guess I've never been one to play by the rules anyway, mostly because of my shyness.
I guess you're not as shy as you thought you were and you're coming along nicely. Well done.
A smarter man would have remembered the number when you say it
Actually that's a good way to gauge his interest. If you just say it to him and he actually remembers it, you can be pretty sure he's "into" you--great way to weed them out.
Actually that's a good way to gauge his interest. If you just say it to him and he actually remembers it, you can be pretty sure he's "into" you--great way to weed them out.
There was this one time some guy asked for my number and though I didn't want to give it out, I thought he was probably drunk enough not to be able to remember it and I was horrible at lying and rejecting people (I'm too nice haha), so I said my number really fast. Unfortunately he kept repeating it to himself all night and wrote it down on a piece of paper in his car. Then he kept calling me for a month even though I acted really rude and kept saying I didn't want to go out with him.
So yes, this is true, if a guy really wants your number (and you actually DO want him to call) you should say it to him.
There was this one time some guy asked for my number and though I didn't want to give it out, I thought he was probably drunk enough not to be able to remember it and I was horrible at lying and rejecting people (I'm too nice haha), so I said my number really fast. Unfortunately he kept repeating it to himself all night and wrote it down on a piece of paper in his car. Then he kept calling me for a month even though I acted really rude and kept saying I didn't want to go out with him.
So yes, this is true, if a guy really wants your number (and you actually DO want him to call) you should say it to him.
Isn't there a phone number that women can give out and the voicemail greeting basically says, "Ummmm, yeah. She wasn't into you."
Why is this so complicated?
I see two 'rational' options here.
Do you want to meet this guy?
Yes -> Call the guy, like you did
No -> Don't call the guy
Don't call. He has no balls asking yours for fear of rejection. So **** him.
I almost always give my number rather than take hers and I can assure you, it has nothing to do with balls or fear of rejection.
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Guess I've never been one to play by the rules anyway, mostly because of my shyness.
