Men, is this a deal breaker? (kids)

[malamute]

Originally Posted by CarolVa1977

I have been finally just talking with some guys on e-harmony and already twice they stop answering my emails when I said I do not want kids....

Really? Is this a deal breaker?

It should be a deal-breaker. It's not an issue where there's any room for compromise.

[malamute]

Also keep in mind that kids is plural. Very often people who want kids want siblings for those kids.

You can compromise if one wants 6 kids, the other wants 4, you can decide okay - 5. Or one wants 3, ther other wants just 1 so they settle on 2.

So not only might the guy want kids, he might want a whole bunch of them. If you're not into children just move on. End it before it starts.

[Ulysses61]

It should be a deal-breaker. It's not an issue where there's any room for compromise.

Perfectly said!

[asitshouldbe]

Add to your profile, your desire to never have kids. That way, you won't be getting turned for that reason.