Do you like freaky? How far is too far? (wife, how to, married)

[floridadreamer]

So I am starting a thread based on some things that VAFury said on another thread.

I am wondering how tolerant people would be if they found out their SO was into some pretty "freaky" stuff. What is your idea or too freaky and what would you accept and what would make you "RUN FOR THE HILLS"?

THIS IS ANONYMOUS PEOPLE. It's ok to he honest.

[SandyCo]

It's only okay to be honest as long as the responses remain PG-13, everyone! Just a reminder from your friendly moderator!

[spiritwalker]

Originally Posted by floridadreamer

So I am starting a thread based on some things that VAFury said on another thread.

I am wondering how tolerant people would be if they found out their SO was into some pretty "freaky" stuff. What is your idea or too freaky and what would you accept and what would make you "RUN FOR THE HILLS"?

THIS IS ANONYMOUS PEOPLE. It's ok to he honest.

Good question floridadreamer...you put the real stuff out there.
Anything that inflicts or causes extreme pain is my idea of too freaky...If my SO were into this secretly? That would raise my eyebrows
Other things that would make me run for the hills? Can't think of a whole lot.
At least that I would be permitted to post. Send a PM if you like.
Spiritwalker

[floridadreamer]

Originally Posted by SandyCo

It's only okay to be honest as long as the responses remain PG-13, everyone! Just a reminder from your friendly moderator!

Good point. Should have mentioned that I guess.

[floridadreamer]

Originally Posted by spiritwalker

Good question floridadreamer...you put the real stuff out there.
Anything that inflicts or causes extreme pain is my idea of too freaky...If my SO were into this secretly? That would raise my eyebrows
Other things that would make me run for the hills? Can't think of a whole lot.
At least that I would be permitted to post. Send a PM if you like.
Spiritwalker

That's enough info for me.

[IamInShape]

My wife's idea of "freaky" is having sex missionary style. Go figure.

[spiritwalker]

Originally Posted by floridadreamer

That's enough info for me.

Just keepin' it real

[Twinkle Toes]

I have a friend right now who is going through a divorce and her husband is a FREAK!!!!! He doesn't know we know anything. He apparently thinks she's just this little, weak, weepy woman who is in the dark about everything. little does he know she's got savvy friends who are helping to kep her strong throughout this ordeal. Oh, and she's a very strong lady too! Anyway, he left her without giving her a reason, then he tried to blame it all on her. She had fallen ill and had about a year and a half of illness. He blamed his leaving on her illness, but we found out that wasn't the reason. This guy is on every porno site imaginable to mankind. He's into really kinky, voyeuristic, group stuff and mutual masturbation and he even posted up his pics! Smart guy, huh? He doesn't think anyone he knows is going to see these things??? And he works in a job where he must be very "upper crust". If his employers or any of the homeowners where he works found out about this stuff, the dip**** would be out of a job. Anyway, all of us ladies have gotten together and we have a HUGE file on this guy - to preserve the evidence. We think at some point his employers and the homeowners may just find out about what he's up to. The guy is a first class creep with a capital C!!!

[Magnolia Bloom]

My DH was a Republican... that was a little freaky! But was were well-suited to one another in other areas.

[DawnW]

Do people just hide stuff?

I guess I don't get it. DH and I talked about literally everything before we got married. There were very few surprises and they were very minor.

Anyone who is hiding anything is a freak imho.

Dawn