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Old 04-07-2011, 08:57 PM
 
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Hi everyone,
So while making a guest list for our wedding, my fiance mentions inviting someone I've never heard of and asking him to be a groomsman. I say, uh ok whatever. and when he sends me the official list, for curiosity's sake i look this guy up on facebook. Come to find out hes about 13 years older than us, and lives half way across the country. When i ask my fiancee about it, he says, "i met him in high school, and now play WOW with him"

I now know this is a lie too. Fiance sent him a message saying i didn't want him there or something. So this guy sends me a facebook message, saying sorry "i know its awkward for you to want someone to come when he only knows me from WOW."

I'm furious. I'm sick of lies. It always little lies with him. Especially when its such a stupid thing to lie about to begin with. I'm about to call it quits. My question is, am i over reacting? Its not what it was over, but that he lied to begin with and when he had the opportunity to tell the truth he still didn't.

Thanks for any input.
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Old 04-07-2011, 08:59 PM
 
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Once a liar, always a liar.

The question is do you want to send the rest of your life trying to figure out if everything he says is a lie or not?
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Old 04-07-2011, 09:05 PM
 
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Once a liar, always a liar.

The question is do you want to send the rest of your life trying to figure out if everything he says is a lie or not?

And that's becoming a big problem for me right now. Its like even if he doesn't lie I still am weary. Thanks for the input, I'm really thinking this might be the end.
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Old 04-07-2011, 09:07 PM
 
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Ehhh, WOW, really? WOW? Gahhhhhh!
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Old 04-07-2011, 09:11 PM
 
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Ehhh, WOW, really? WOW? Gahhhhhh!
Ya for real. Its the one quirk I've really struggled with putting up with. Sometimes I'll be trying to ask him something and he totally ignores me due to that stupid game.
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Old 04-07-2011, 09:12 PM
 
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Ya for real. Its the one quirk I've really struggled with putting up with. Sometimes I'll be trying to ask him something and he totally ignores me due to that stupid game.
Lighten up. At least he's getting off to scat instead of rollin' in the hay with you.
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Old 04-07-2011, 09:16 PM
 
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So, he's never met the guy, but plays WOW with him? And this guy wants to make the trip? Nuh-uh, something doesn't smell right.
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Old 04-07-2011, 09:16 PM
 
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A little sidebar here - Why would he ask him to be a groomsman? Doesn't he have enough real friends to fill that role?
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Old 04-07-2011, 09:16 PM
 
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Ya for real. Its the one quirk I've really struggled with putting up with. Sometimes I'll be trying to ask him something and he totally ignores me due to that stupid game.
Tell me about it! My last bf was addicted to Playstation. It was ridiculous...
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Old 04-07-2011, 09:19 PM
 
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Why would he lie about how he knows this man? Is he embarrassed or is he an habitual liar who feels compelled to lie about the smallest circumstances?

If he lies about how he knows someone, what else will he lie about?
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