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I have been in a questionable marriage just to give light to this a little but last night I saw a picture on my husbands cell phone that sent me in to state of shock. It was sent to him by his friend and it was a picture his brother took of of female part. If you all know what I mean ????? I asked him about it one because of his reply to his friend. He asked for them to send more and if they could adjust the lighting. He thinks its no big deal and said who wouldn't want to see more? I feel it can lead if it has not already to something bad. I'm mad at his reaction to me and my feelings. Now remember this is not a e-mail passed on of some unknown girl, she is local . Not that I totally agree with the unknown girl either but feel they are different for some reason.
Thoughts please, am I'm being crazy about this ?
Something else I remember after the original post, which I can't believe I forgot. I'm that upset ! Was his friend kept asking do you know who she is and doesn't she look good? He said he does not know her.
I disagree, because he has asked for more pictures, and says it is no big deal to you, this shows a total lack of respect for you and your feelings. He should have apologised to you and deleted the picture and never should have asked for more. Your marriage is obviously in trouble and both of you should go to marriage counciling if you both want to save your marriage.
I disagree, because he has asked for more pictures, and says it is no big deal to you, this shows a total lack of respect for you and your feelings. He should have apologised to you and deleted the picture and never should have asked for more. Your marriage is obviously in trouble and both of you should go to marriage counciling if you both want to save your marriage.
You are right about the troubled marriage and our trial year back together is not working. This just topped it off for me. I'm glad someone saw it as I did. I feel betrayed and hurt by this.
I think you are overreacting to the pic on the phone. A lot of women would not give much thought to it, if they trusted their mate (I can tell you do not), because sometimes a pic is just a pic.
I also think he is under-reacting to your concern. He does not respect you and if he did he would have made an honest, instead of a half-hearted, attempt to address your concern.
Something is not right in the marriage - the pic is just an indicator of the fact you've already acknowledged.
I think that since your marriage is so questionable you are making a much bigger deal out of the picture than need be. However, I think his disregard for your feelings on the matter are the bigger issue. You need to concentrate on that, and not the picture. Good Luck to you.
To me there is a trust issue ... that is the starter... his total lack of respect of your feelings is not good. I have to agree here.. the picture is not the thing you should be zeroing in on.. its his total lack of respect for you after questioning him about it...
Not sure.. but I get the feeling this question is the catalyst of a split? or a reason for a split? You have to do what you have to do.. good luck
Did he show it to you and flaunt it or did you snoop and find it? I think it is an overreaction if you are just upset because he has nasty pic on HIS phone. Men are horn dogs and most are going to act stupid when it comes to naked women. It does sound as if ther are other issues.
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I have been in a questionable marriage just to give light to this a little but last night I saw a picture on my husbands cell phone that sent me in to state of shock. It was sent to him by his friend and it was a picture his brother took of of female part. If you all know what I mean ????? 
I asked him about it one because of his reply to his friend. He asked for them to send more and if they could adjust the lighting. He thinks its no big deal and said who wouldn't want to see more? I feel it can lead if it has not already to something bad. I'm mad at his reaction to me and my feelings. Now remember this is not a e-mail passed on of some unknown girl, she is local . Not that I totally agree with the unknown girl either but feel they are different for some reason.
