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I have been in a questionable marriage just to give light to this a little but last night I saw a picture on my husbands cell phone that sent me in to state of shock. It was sent to him by his friend and it was a picture his brother took of of female part. If you all know what I mean ????? I asked him about it one because of his reply to his friend. He asked for them to send more and if they could adjust the lighting. He thinks its no big deal and said who wouldn't want to see more? I feel it can lead if it has not already to something bad. I'm mad at his reaction to me and my feelings. Now remember this is not a e-mail passed on of some unknown girl, she is local . Not that I totally agree with the unknown girl either but feel they are different for some reason.
Thoughts please, am I'm being crazy about this ?
Something else I remember after the original post, which I can't believe I forgot. I'm that upset ! Was his friend kept asking do you know who she is and doesn't she look good? He said he does not know her.
I have been in a questionable marriage just to give light to this a little but last night I saw a picture on my husbands cell phone that sent me in to state of shock. It was sent to him by his friend and it was a picture his brother took of of female part. If you all know what I mean ????? I asked him about it one because of his reply to his friend. He asked for them to send more and if they could adjust the lighting. He thinks its no big deal and said who wouldn't want to see more? I feel it can lead if it has not already to something bad. I'm mad at his reaction to me and my feelings. Now remember this is not a e-mail passed on of some unknown girl, she is local . Not that I totally agree with the unknown girl either but feel they are different for some reason.
Thoughts please, am I'm being crazy about this ?
Something else I remember after the original post, which I can't believe I forgot. I'm that upset ! Was his friend kept asking do you know who she is and doesn't she look good? He said he does not know her.
It would creep me out a bit. Totally inappropriate in my eyes.
A smart, mature man would've deleted the photo right away and replied to his friend, "Hey, man, my wife uses my phone sometimes so please don't send me anything like that to get me in the doghouse at home. My wife means alot to me and I don't want to do anything to cause her to be upset." Now that would be a real man!
LOL!!! And then said real man would have a glass of milk and a couple of cookies his mommy baked, right?
A smart, mature man would've deleted the photo right away and replied to his friend, "Hey, man, my wife uses my phone sometimes so please don't send me anything like that to get me in the doghouse at home. My wife means alot to me and I don't want to do anything to cause her to be upset." Now that would be a real man!
what youre not revealing is that before this happened the REAL MAN would have already downloaded the video to his computer
I am married for 22 years to a beautiful women. If my wife ever said to me to remove a picture etc, she would not even have to finish the sentence and I would delete it and appoligize. THE Main most important answer to a healthy marriage is respect.
What a concept! I applaud you. A respectful man (and not afraid to admit it) trumps an immature, "boys will be boys" guy in the eyes of wise, thoughtful women. How completely refreshing compared to many of the previous postings.
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I have been in a questionable marriage just to give light to this a little but last night I saw a picture on my husbands cell phone that sent me in to state of shock. It was sent to him by his friend and it was a picture his brother took of of female part. If you all know what I mean ????? 
I asked him about it one because of his reply to his friend. He asked for them to send more and if they could adjust the lighting. He thinks its no big deal and said who wouldn't want to see more? I feel it can lead if it has not already to something bad. I'm mad at his reaction to me and my feelings. Now remember this is not a e-mail passed on of some unknown girl, she is local . Not that I totally agree with the unknown girl either but feel they are different for some reason.
