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and we are still cordial, however he still helps me out here and there if I really need something he will give it to me, because I fell on hard times financially, I'm still not working or receiving any income. However, he feels that I should give him sex now if he gives me some money (20 bucks here or there). I don't want to have sex with him, because I'm not sexually into him anymore. He plays mind games with me, still seeing other women, and he is still confused and doesn't know what he wants. I'm not not his prostitute.
and we are still cordial, however he still helps me out here and there if I really need something he will give it to me, because I fell on hard times financially, I'm still not working or receiving any income. However, he feels that I should give him sex now if he gives me some money (20 bucks here or there). I don't want to have sex with him, because I'm not sexually into him anymore. He plays mind games with me, still seeing other women, and he is still confused and doesn't know what he wants. I'm not not his prostitute.
So tell him "no." He's seeing other women. Let him get it from them. He's not your problem anymore. And honestly? You shouldn't be his. If he wants to offer you help as a friend, that is one thing, but friends don't expect sex in exchange for money. They expect to be paid back in kind, which means in money.
If I were you, I'd see about getting some kind of public assistance until you get a job. Then I'd cut the cord from him. That's what separation and divorce are: People being on their own again.
and we are still cordial, however he still helps me out here and there if I really need something he will give it to me, because I fell on hard times financially, I'm still not working or receiving any income. However, he feels that I should give him sex now if he gives me some money (20 bucks here or there). I don't want to have sex with him, because I'm not sexually into him anymore. He plays mind games with me, still seeing other women, and he is still confused and doesn't know what he wants. I'm not not his prostitute.
Wow, that's pretty disgusting
You simply have to refuse to take any money from a man, regardless of how much you need it, once he begins to demand sex in return.
Ugh I will never forget the day my ex turned up on my doorstep to give me some child support...he had $50 and when I reached for it he snatched it away and demand I kiss him first.
That day I contacted Child Support and got his wages garnished.
It's financial abuse...just another way to keep control. You don't need his $20, get a job.
Ugh I will never forget the day my ex turned up on my doorstep to give me some child support...he had $50 and when I reached for it he snatched it away and demand I kiss him first.
That day I contacted Child Support and got his wages garnished.
It's financial abuse...just another way to keep control. You don't need his $20, get a job.
Bingo! Good for you!
Thats what OP should have told him the first time he suggested it.
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