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How about you just live life and make friends that are female and see what happens? I would not suggest to bother with any girl that would leave a current guy for you. If she would do that to them, she would do that to you. Females that have self respect also don't lie and say they are single because there is fresh meat around either. Dating people like that is just asking for a big bag of drama that makes single life look like heaven.
Also, if you are described as "nice" and/or "funny" the window was never open.
Not true. I consider those points to be a prerequisite. But I also am not the type of ho to lie and say I have a boyfriend or leave the current for a new one. You all need to stop chasing crazy skirts and look for some quality ones.
Not true. I consider those points to be a prerequisite. But I also am not the type of ho to lie and say I have a boyfriend or leave the current for a new one. You all need to stop chasing crazy skirts and look for some quality ones.
From my personal experience being called "nice" or "funny" is akin to being a "great guy". All compliments I have heard many times yet women just are not in to me. I will, however, admit my bias to said comments. In addition to women in general I have heard those exact words from the three women I have been attracted to the most in my lifetime. In my mind they are synonymous with "you're not good enough". Just my experience though. Can't speak for everyone. My comments were meant to be more of a sarcastic quip.
Every girl I ask out says she is seeing someone or has a boyfriend and so that I'm now kind of losing faith. Granted, this past year I've only asked out 2 girls - but by judging this sample group I'm feeling a bit despondent.
I know girls sometimes say this when they're not interested in you, but how can you tell? These girls were extremely nice with me, willing to hang out and stuff, but then telling me that they're 'seeing someone'. I feel like everyone is taken, and I don't know where to find single girls...
Where are you looking? There are plenty of single girls in their 20's (w/ no kids) out there. I used to see them all the time at college. In fact, I am one.
2 people doesn't qualify as a sample group...try asking out many more people. Good luck!
Every girl I ask out says she is seeing someone or has a boyfriend and so that I'm now kind of losing faith. Granted, this past year I've only asked out 2 girls - but by judging this sample group I'm feeling a bit despondent.
I know girls sometimes say this when they're not interested in you, but how can you tell? These girls were extremely nice with me, willing to hang out and stuff, but then telling me that they're 'seeing someone'. I feel like everyone is taken, and I don't know where to find single girls...
Yes they do exist and out of the realm of "girls". You're going to have to find yourself a woman.
I just don't get it though. I've been asking out girls who I feel are more substantive and interesting and maybe not so much 'hotties' in the truest sense of that word, and am getting snubbed with the 'I have a boyfriend' line.
I've had really hot girls flirt with me in the past, trying to get me to ask them out and such, but I just wasn't interested because I'm looking for personality compatibility not just a **** partner, and these girls weren't that. I know for a fact that girls find me handsome, but still I can't seem to get any girl that I want to go out with, to actually agree with it (well they do agree to hang out, but they mention the BF when they do).
I see so many more ugly guys getting the good girls, when they don't even seem to have the gleaning personalities to attract them, yet for some reason, they score...meanwhile a good-looking, smart guy with a better job than most his age, and a bit unconventional in attitude and interests, cannot seem to get anything???
I might be handsome but I do admit to not being very 'normal' as I'm a high-risk kind of a guy, so maybe that scares away the girls??? Do I need to change my personality and act like a typical bore to get the girls? Just play dumb and act like I want the American Dream???
Do girls not appreciate "Weird" guys? Not creepy but weird.
I was never really single until now. It is really hard to find single people once you are out of school. You just have to look harder cause I have tons of friends that are single. I don't know if it's because we're all single that we hang out together or what. And we always complain that we can't find a decent, single guy..lol
BTW...have you considered maybe it's your personality that they don't like?
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There are plenty of single girls in their 20's (w/ no kids) out there. I used to see them all the time at college. In fact, I am one. 
