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Yes, you did. But my question is: what, exactly, do you want to tell her? What do you want her to know? Do you just want her to know that you have an interest in her, or is there something more?
The first step is to be sure you know what you want to tell her.
Ya sorry to the rest of you no offense intended I'm sure you all look beautiful for your age.
And the older ladies I was referring to mid to late 30s cause those are the ones that hit on me.
Well, if you are going to talk to her you need to find things in common first. For me in the past it was easy as I always had a book with me, talk about favorite authors and books, and important this was one of my real interests. You want to watch and learn and not be a stalker. You could simply ask her out for a cup of coffee, this has been a standard for decades of showing interest without commitment from either party. The meeting then is not about the coffee but to learn a little about each other and to tease. Do not lie about your self, you want to show her you are interested in her.
Here is the one flaw I see in your way. As you already said you have women in their late 30's hitting on you, these women are called cougars.
Women in their early 20's date older men because they can, older men have more to offer young women. Money, stable homes, nice cars, well experienced in making love.
Older women date young men because they can, these women can offer young men things they do not have. Homes, cars, money, experienced sex.
Your young lady of interest is 26, she is constantly asked out each day by men of all ages. You have to be calm and assured and be interesting.
One thing I learned thru the decades. Say you are a man of type A, attracted to and trying to date type B women. Date after date but nothing happens. It takes a thought to realize type A women are offering but my blinders are on. The 20's are the time to learn and polish, do not marry till at least in your 30's.
Well, if you are going to talk to her you need to find things in common first. For me in the past it was easy as I always had a book with me, talk about favorite authors and books, and important this was one of my real interests. You want to watch and learn and not be a stalker. You could simply ask her out for a cup of coffee, this has been a standard for decades of showing interest without commitment from either party. The meeting then is not about the coffee but to learn a little about each other and to tease. Do not lie about your self, you want to show her you are interested in her.
Here is the one flaw I see in your way. As you already said you have women in their late 30's hitting on you, these women are called cougars.
Women in their early 20's date older men because they can, older men have more to offer young women. Money, stable homes, nice cars, well experienced in making love.
Older women date young men because they can, these women can offer young men things they do not have. Homes, cars, money, experienced sex.
Your young lady of interest is 26, she is constantly asked out each day by men of all ages. You have to be calm and assured and be interesting.
One thing I learned thru the decades. Say you are a man of type A, attracted to and trying to date type B women. Date after date but nothing happens. It takes a thought to realize type A women are offering but my blinders are on. The 20's are the time to learn and polish, do not marry till at least in your 30's.
Wow thanks a lot!
All the info was extremely helpful and will be hopefully in the future too.
How do I make a move to a cougar? Cause there is so much they will say so how could I respond?
If you consider a five year age difference a big open trench to be overcome, maybe you really are too young to be looking at women five years older, lol. BTW, kshe you are looking better than a lot of women at 32; you must have good genes indeed.
Yeah well this is why i made this thread like how did you manage to go out with them like let m know some of that good info. Lol
How did you talk to them like I don't have the world to offer them I'm young still.
it was nothing really, you just be yourself and try to have a good time...
altho to be honest, why on earth would you be interested in the older chics? by the time i had hit 24 i was way over older women, now that i'm closing in on 28 i only want fresh, young meat
I know someone 5 years older then than I'm attracted to would appreciate any pointers and info on how I could let her know.
I'm 21 and seem to get hit on a lot by older ladies sometimes I don't know what to say and I'm kinda shy so that doesn't help much.
So you're in your 20s and you don't know how to talk to women in their 20s?
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