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Old 09-09-2012, 02:22 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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she is simply wrong.
With all due respect to you guys, I seem to recall a thread we had about whether guys would go for women with more average or plain looks if they had a great personality, or if beauty would be the preference even if it came as a package deal with airheadedness or meanness, or something. And the general response was that a woman had to be attractive in order for a guy to be interested, meaning physical attraction had to happen, personality wasn't on the radar at all. Maybe it was a different batch of guys responding to that one than we have here today, idk....

 
Old 09-09-2012, 02:22 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Not being high horse... just noting...

Please, it's the only thing that keeps my sanity after reading all your incredible man hate.

It's the glue that holds it all together....


LOL

Whatever. My respect for men isn't growing any steadier after dealing with you two that's for sure.
 
Old 09-09-2012, 02:24 PM
 
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Talking Duh

Yes they do and from some of my prettier friends, it gets old very quick. Nothing wrong with getting approached, what woman doesn't want that, but to be seen so superficially all the time is exhausting.
 
Old 09-09-2012, 02:24 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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That comes off as harsh. You don't know an AS persons journey unless you yourself have AS. And even then you still don't, because there are different levels of it. I certainly didn't know she had AS-- and she is right, it does not make her brain dead either.

Ram Charger is one of the meanest guys on here, so I don't take anything seriously that he says about someone else being an 'as*' whatever. typical.

edit: back on the topic. the men did a thread 'ideal woman' in another forum and 95 percent of those women posted were nothing like what we see normal women looking like. they weren't plain janes or anything like that. they are so full of it.
 
Old 09-09-2012, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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they are really good at making a woman feel like garbage if she's not the kind of woman they think all of us should be.

I do not think you are lying about your work experiences either, given my own experiences. Personally, I don't see how you work around them day after day like that in a male 'centric' environment given how they tend to behave.....
Spare me. I'm not making anyone feel like anything. If you feel like garbage, it's your own issue.
 
Old 09-09-2012, 02:27 PM
 
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Ram Charger is one of the meanest guys on here, so I don't take anything seriously that he says about someone else being an 'as*' whatever. typical.
Im not familiar with Ram but, if this is true, good for you. I learned something new about you and it only teaches me not to be quick to judge. We can all be guilty of that at times.
 
Old 09-09-2012, 02:27 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Spare me. I'm not making anyone feel like anything. If you feel like garbage, it's your own issue.

I didn't say you were. I said men do that in general, read again.
 
Old 09-09-2012, 02:29 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Im not familiar with Ram but, if this is true, good for you. I learned something new about you and it only teaches me not to be quick to judge. We can all be guilty of that at times.

you have a lot of posts but you must not come on this forum a lot or maybe not in this section? I am guilty of everything.
 
Old 09-09-2012, 02:30 PM
 
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I have opened my eyes, that's how I seen what most of what these guys say on here is not even remotely how they act IRL. Every guy online is a prince in shining armor, yea right. What world? I live in the world just like you do. I'm not 14, I'm 32. Bottom line is: the only men I see saying the complete opposite of what I seen IRL are those that are online.
You haven't met me or anyone else here. How in the hell do you know what we act like in real life?
 
Old 09-09-2012, 02:32 PM
 
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With all due respect to you guys, I seem to recall a thread we had about whether guys would go for women with more average or plain looks if they had a great personality, or if beauty would be the preference even if it came as a package deal with airheadedness or meanness, or something. And the general response was that a woman had to be attractive in order for a guy to be interested, meaning physical attraction had to happen, personality wasn't on the radar at all. Maybe it was a different batch of guys responding to that one than we have here today, idk....
You can apply this same concept to women also. Kind of why I threw that thread out the window since I'm sure women threw a fit yet they are the same way.
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