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View Poll Results: American women Vs. European women
American Women 26 29.89%
European Women 61 70.11%
Voters: 87. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 06-14-2011, 05:07 PM
 
Location: Tallahassee, Florida
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I could staple the facts and scenarios to your forehead, yet you still wouldn't accept it. Do any of you women date women? Then how would you know what its like?
Do you not notice the huge difference in female to male consumption?
Do you not notice the huge acceptance to misandry?
Do you not notice the unfair divorce and child courts?
Everything I have said deals with women, but is a social issue.

 
Old 06-14-2011, 05:15 PM
 
Location: Tallahassee, Florida
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No. Let's be honest... The sparks fly because as a model you're a hot Piece Of Ass.



Europeans are more direct than Americans. Americans are indirect in how we socialize. It's a cultural difference.



I think if you find someone you're compatible with instead of being concerned about what nationality they are, that would be your best solution.

Don't categorize American women as "one way" and European women "as another way".

So, from one ex-model to another you should know better than anybody that there's nothing worse than feeling like you're being treated like you're a piece of meat - you should know that you can do better.



Sounds like you're trying to test the waters to start a dating service.

I think that's been done. There are plenty of mail order bride services on the internet to choose from that hook up American men with European women who are looking to marry "American men".

If you want a woman who knows her place, I guess you're better off with the European woman, because the American woman is going to be too much of a challenge for you.

My European sister-in-law would love to meet a nice American guy. But from what I know about her she's going to want a guy with some balls.

Personally I don't think it has anything to do with my looks. I look the same here in America as I do in Europe. I understand we cannot categorize a whole nation, but like you said, we have our cultural differences. One of the things that I am trying to point out is the cultural difference in how we interact between genders is changing, and in my opinion, for the worse.

You pointed out a very important thing. American men are losing their balls. They are becoming more dependent on porn, video games, and TV. They do not have to play the roll as provider any longer. But how is this going to work in the long run, with less men approaching women, and more women turning cold.
 
Old 06-14-2011, 05:17 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Instead of attacking me I would love to see one of you prove me wrong. The men on this forum have spoken. The men on other forums have spoken. The divorce rate and ever growing singles market speaks for itself. Why is it when a man opens up about a growing social problem, you immediately go for his balls.
Why is it that you are brand new on this forum and your first thread is a all about bashing American women? I think it's so funny! And then you get all upset and defensive! You can't call an entire nationality of women materialistic and vapid and not expect people to give you hell! You really can't be that naive, can you? If you didn't want to get attacked - you shouldn't have started off by attacking! Can't take the heat - get out of the kitchen!

Although, really, your whole OP seems to be just a ploy to see if there is a market for a business to link American men with European women. That was the whole point of your post afterall.
 
Old 06-14-2011, 05:21 PM
 
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Personally I don't think it has anything to do with my looks. I look the same here in America as I do in Europe. I understand we cannot categorize a whole nation, but like you said, we have our cultural differences. One of the things that I am trying to point out is the cultural difference in how we interact between genders is changing, and in my opinion, for the worse.

You pointed out a very important thing. American men are losing their balls. They are becoming more dependent on porn, video games, and TV. They do not have to play the roll as provider any longer. But how is this going to work in the long run, with less men approaching women, and more women turning cold.
American women prefer the bad boys anyways. Let em get herpes and warts while we enjoy ps3
 
Old 06-14-2011, 05:23 PM
 
Location: Tallahassee, Florida
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Why is it that you are brand new on this forum and your first thread is a all about bashing American women? I think it's so funny! And then you get all upset and defensive! You can't call an entire nationality of women materialistic and vapid and not expect people to give you hell! You really can't be that naive, can you? If you didn't want to get attacked - you shouldn't have started off by attacking! Can't take the heat - get out of the kitchen!

Although, really, your whole OP seems to be just a ploy to see if there is a market for a business to link American men with European women. That was the whole point of your post afterall.
We could have an intelligent debate but I think that would be asking to much from you.
 
Old 06-14-2011, 05:23 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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Personally I don't think it has anything to do with my looks. I look the same here in America as I do in Europe. I understand we cannot categorize a whole nation, but like you said, we have our cultural differences. One of the things that I am trying to point out is the cultural difference in how we interact between genders is changing, and in my opinion, for the worse.

You pointed out a very important thing. American men are losing their balls. They are becoming more dependent on porn, video games, and TV. They do not have to play the roll as provider any longer. But how is this going to work in the long run, with less men approaching women, and more women turning cold.
If you're going to Jamaica (as your status says) make sure you keep an eye on the hurricane warnings. I got caught in Gustav in 2008.

One thing you may have missed is that the USA is attempting a social shift with having gender neutral roles. There are many threads concerning gender neutrality on the "politics and other controversies" message board here.

If gender roles are less important in the future in the USA as is the trend, what becomes of our society? People just behave in any way the wind blows with no regard for gender expectations. Females assume a more masculine gender identity - dominant, and males assume a more feminine role or submissive.

https://www.city-data.com/forum/polit...ouple-not.html

https://www.city-data.com/forum/polit...bathrooms.html

https://www.city-data.com/forum/polit...ess-child.html
 
Old 06-14-2011, 05:25 PM
 
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I really wish men that only want to date European women or that detest American women would move. Go where the women love you and want you. I believe that America will be better off, and you will obviously be happier. This will be a win, win for everyone involved.
 
Old 06-14-2011, 05:27 PM
 
Location: Tallahassee, Florida
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I really wish men that only want to date European women or that detest American women would move. Go where the women love you and want you. I believe that America will be better off, and you will obviously be happier. This will be a win, win for everyone involved.
Yes I wish there was an organized system to do so, many even get the women over here as well. Have dual citizenship and so on.
 
Old 06-14-2011, 05:34 PM
 
Location: Tallahassee, Florida
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If you're going to Jamaica (as your status says) make sure you keep an eye on the hurricane warnings. I got caught in Gustav in 2008.

One thing you may have missed is that the USA is attempting a social shift with having gender neutral roles. There are many threads concerning gender neutrality on the "politics and other controversies" message board here.

If gender roles are less important in the future in the USA as is the trend, what becomes of our society? People just behave in any way the wind blows with no regard for gender expectations. Females assume a more masculine gender identity - dominant, and males assume a more feminine role or submissive.

https://www.city-data.com/forum/polit...ouple-not.html

https://www.city-data.com/forum/polit...bathrooms.html

https://www.city-data.com/forum/polit...ess-child.html

That would ruin a vacation for sure. Being stuck on an Island in a hurricane is not fun. I grew up in South Florida so I am used to the tropical weather.

I have read some articles regarding gender neutrality. I must say I deeply disagree with it. We are going to lose so much identity. Then again, we will learn what identities we have picked up through society. Personally I feel that in the long run gender neutrality will hurt reproduction.
 
Old 06-14-2011, 05:37 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I could staple the facts and scenarios to your forehead, yet you still wouldn't accept it.
The problem is when use a scenario and try to extrapolate it across 300 million people. We are the third largest nation in the world by population. There is no "one way" we women are. I remember your initial post lamented Britney Spears and Ke$ha--there are literally millions of women who couldn't care less about vapid pop stars.

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Do any of you women date women? Then how would you know what its like?
Actually, yes. But point taken. I do not know what it is like for a younger man in today's dating market. I do know, however, that men without your education or good looks find mates. People are still getting married, and a lot of the brides aren't like Bridezillas from whatever that show is on cable.

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Do you not notice the huge difference in female to male consumption?
I know that I, like many women, manage the household budget and do almost all the shopping. I write all the checks, I pay all the bills, I do all the clothes shopping for our children, I told my husband how much he could spend on his new car. Almost all our joint discretionary income is spent by me ... for our family. From one point of view, I am the major consumer in this house. From another point of view, despite spending almost all there is to spend, I buy almost nothing for myself.

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Do you not notice the huge acceptance to misandry?
Yes, I notice it. I was in Target this morning (major consumer that I am ) and in the little girls' department was a picture of a girl wearing a T-shirt that said, "Play like a girl. Beat the boys." This type of shirt is fairly common ("Girls rule, boys drool," etc.), but you don't see the reverse (e.g., "Play like a boy. Beat the girls"). I was reminded of an article I read a while back, saying that a boy had worn a shirt to school simply saying, "Boys are good," and he was asked to take it off.

However, I do not agree with claims that schools are evil feminazi institutions bent on castrating boys, which is where this type of conversation typically goes. I have a seven-year-old son and have no complaints about his schooling. But I do agree that some odd misandry exists (as does misogyny) in general.

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Do you not notice the unfair divorce and child courts?
I have heard about situations that seem unfair, yes, but they involve both men and women. I have few problems with laws as a whole, although I agree that they may be applied unfairly.

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Everything I have said deals with women, but is a social issue.
The U.S. is a large country with countless social groups. Perhaps you are mingling in the wrong circles?
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