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Would you call this cheating, found vibrator in wifes underware drawer, not snopping, putting up laundry, I don't think she wanting me to find it. How do I confront her, is it cheating, I don't mind her even using it. Lost for word's. or just a smile
No, I don't consider using one of those to be "cheating," but I understand that some people are uncomfortable when their spouses use any kind of "marital aid." If it bugs you, you need to talk to her about it. But if you don't mind her using it, why do you need to confront her?
Is it sad that she feels she can't be honest with you? Yes.
Is the fact that she can't be honest with you a signal that there is an underlying problem in your relationship? Possibly.
Most women cannot orgasm from penetration alone. It's a medical fact... it has nothing to do with her mind or your technique. Smart couples find a way to combine penetration with the necessary forms of additional stimulation the individual woman requires. They work together to find what is pleasurable to both of them, and they don't let ego or fear inhibit them from being honest.
Instead of confronting her about the vibe you found, you might try ordering an egg vibrator online or buying one at a local adult store and introducing it into your sex life as if it were your own idea. "So I read something online about how much more pleasurable sex can be for a woman if she has additional stimulation... would you be willing to experiment with me?"
You'll turn into the hero husband of the year. *chuckling* And likely open up a new level of honesty and pleasure in your relationship.
Lots of guys are not ok with toys. What's weird to me is that she has one and you don't know about it, but she obviously wasn't trying to hide it well.
she,s prodally just embarassed if it bothers you tell her why it does.
maybe you could even ask to jion her. its not cheating what matters is who,s on her mind at the time it not like porn when your geting of on another persons sexual act. just make her feel confortable and she will be more open
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