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Old 06-03-2010, 06:49 PM
 
Location: Duh mountains
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Would you call this cheating, found vibrator in wifes underware drawer, not snopping, putting up laundry, I don't think she wanting me to find it. How do I confront her, is it cheating, I don't mind her even using it. Lost for word's. or just a smile
Maybe you, her and the vibrator can get together for 3 way sex..?
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Old 06-03-2010, 06:56 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Would you call this cheating, found vibrator in wifes underware drawer, not snopping, putting up laundry, I don't think she wanting me to find it. How do I confront her, is it cheating, I don't mind her even using it. Lost for word's. or just a smile

Confront her? Are you kidding me???

CHEATING??? You really think this is CHEATING????
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Old 06-03-2010, 06:57 PM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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To think that her using a vibrator is "cheating" is ludicrous. It's her body and if she wants to pleasure herself with a toy that's perfectly OK as long as it does not interfere with your mutual sex life.

And consider yourself lucky. I asked my wife once if she wanted to experiment with a vibrator. Her response was so negative you would have thought I asked her if she wanted to have sex with a rhinoceros.
Interesting...that horn...
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Old 06-03-2010, 07:00 PM
 
Location: Sango, TN
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Would you call this cheating, found vibrator in wifes underware drawer, not snopping, putting up laundry, I don't think she wanting me to find it. How do I confront her, is it cheating, I don't mind her even using it. Lost for word's. or just a smile
Bring it up in late night conversation. "Honey, would you like to bring some toys into the bedroom one night?"

You'll be surprised how much fun you might have.
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Old 06-03-2010, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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Oh, bah. No one gets to control another's masturbatory fantasies. The thought police can bite me.
LMAO!!!!!!! Tried to rep you on that one!
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Old 06-03-2010, 07:14 PM
 
Location: SW Missouri
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Would you call this cheating, found vibrator in wifes underware drawer, not snopping, putting up laundry, I don't think she wanting me to find it. How do I confront her, is it cheating, I don't mind her even using it. Lost for word's. or just a smile
My dear sir, what is in our underwear drawer is our business. I would wager that if you took a survey, probably 75 percent of wives have hidden secrets such as those you discovered. Despite the fact that we are wives, we are entitled to our private lives also. What you found is no reflection on your skills as a lover.

I would keep it quiet if I were you? How would you feel if your wife asked you why, sometimes, you take such long showers? hmmmmmmm?????

20yrsinBranson
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Old 06-03-2010, 07:16 PM
 
Location: state of procrastination
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Do you tell your wife every time you jack off behind her back or look at smut mags? Is that cheating? Do you feel compelled to tell her? Some questions for thought.
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Old 06-03-2010, 07:24 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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My dear sir, what is in our underwear drawer is our business. I would wager that if you took a survey, probably 75 percent of wives have hidden secrets such as those you discovered. Despite the fact that we are wives, we are entitled to our private lives also. What you found is no reflection on your skills as a lover.

20yrsinBranson
If women cheat with vibrators, then there's a lot of cheating women.
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Old 06-03-2010, 07:27 PM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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If you find this in your wife's underwear drawer, you've got problems.

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Old 06-03-2010, 07:46 PM
 
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My dear sir, what is in our underwear drawer is our business. I would wager that if you took a survey, probably 75 percent of wives have hidden secrets such as those you discovered. Despite the fact that we are wives, we are entitled to our private lives also. What you found is no reflection on your skills as a lover.
Absolutely. I have one hidden at the bottom of one of my drawers! I hide it because I know despite what I say about it not being a reflection on him, he'd get all pissy at me.

When the man is not around I need something more than my tiny child like fingers!

Why can men have porn but women can't have vibrators?
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