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Old 07-04-2011, 09:55 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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LOL, I was constantly rejected by fat little butterballs as a guy with a size 31 waist so now I take it out with the knife and the fork.
I just can't figure out why women are not smitten by you (even before looks even enter the picture)!
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Old 07-04-2011, 09:59 PM
 
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I just can't figure out why women are not smitten by you (even before looks even enter the picture)!
Maybe because I'm plain looking/ugly?
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Old 07-04-2011, 10:01 PM
 
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Maybe because I'm plain looking/ugly?

I was plain looking for the first 20 years of my life and I never had an attitude like yours.
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Old 07-04-2011, 10:01 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Maybe because I'm plain looking/ugly?
Why don't you go back and take a look at what I bolded, knight in shining armor, instead of blaming your lack of success on your looks like a broken record?!
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Old 07-04-2011, 10:04 PM
 
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Maybe because I'm plain looking/ugly?
Naw you've got more problems than a guy standing next to some lit dynamite.

Women DO look inside a person and can see who that person really is. Often times that's all women really want, and since beauty is in the eye of the beholder, physical attraction will always vary from person to person.

But you're a mess on the inside. That's just from the posts I've seen you make tonight.
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Old 07-04-2011, 10:06 PM
 
Location: state of procrastination
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Hello, I was just curious about this.

Maybe not everyone believes the friend zone exists but for those that do...why do you put certain men there?

Does it have to do with your attraction to the man?

Compatibility/Potential with the man based on personalities, traits, interests, beliefs, etc?

Availability? Maybe you're in a relationship...or he is in one...

Is it mainly one of these? All of the above? Something else?
1) He's a player
2) He's not good looking / smart / successful enough
3) Bad personality
4) Too much drama
5) Irreconcilable differences (religion, politics)
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Old 07-04-2011, 10:08 PM
 
Location: California
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You guys are silly. Plenty of women introduce guys they aren't personally interested in to their other single girl friends, especially if the guy is in the "friend zone" and the girl consideres him a decent human being. Girls all like different things about guys and I assume the reverse is true. I know my own kids are constantly being set up by opposite sex friends.
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Old 07-04-2011, 10:10 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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But you're a mess on the inside. That's just from the posts I've seen you make tonight.
No kiddin'! If his communication with the women is anything like the hysterics on this forum, small wonder he can't find anybody. Actually, I hope it is! For their sake!
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Old 07-04-2011, 10:10 PM
 
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I was plain looking for the first 20 years of my life and I never had an attitude like yours.
Too bad.
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Old 07-04-2011, 10:17 PM
 
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Naw you've got more problems than a guy standing next to some lit dynamite.

Women DO look inside a person and can see who that person really is. Often times that's all women really want, and since beauty is in the eye of the beholder, physical attraction will always vary from person to person.

But you're a mess on the inside. That's just from the posts I've seen you make tonight.
Sure women have a sixth sense or feminine "intuition" and can "look inside a person".....................

Suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrreeee eeeeeee.

That's why so many of womens marriage choices go bad?

Looks! It's all looks. Your friends here are saying it too so kindly remove your head out of the sand.

Rejection. It came first. TOO! MUCH! REJECTION! my friend and THAT is why I'm (in your words not mine) a "mess" on the inside. Hey, I'm a "mess" on the outside too but at least I know what the cure is and I'm not afraid to say it.
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