Girl I am seeing got flowers from someone else (dating, boyfriend, girlfriend)
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I've been seeing this girl for about a month. It's nothing serious or exclusive, but I like her. I was over at her place last night and there was a vase of flowers in her garage. I only sort of noticed because it was on the garage floor. They were some daisy like flowers. And then there was a bottle of wine in a bag in the fridge. She doesn't really drink.
Without asking, she said she had flowers in her room, but they gave her alergies, so she put them in the garage. I didn't comment on it at all or the wine. But it sounds like someone brought her flowers and wine. I'm jealous now, but won't say anything. At least the plant I got her for her new place has always been in her livingroom and the flowers are in the garage. I hate being jealous, but I can't say anything about it. I'll be out of state for 3 months, 2 months from now, so I'm not going to get in a real relationship. Do you think she should have hid the flowers and not said anything? I think anyone would be a little jealous.
When u go away for 3 months, do u not want to have a relationship because u don't trust females or u don't trust urself? If u like her, say it man. Before its to late. Long term relationship (especially only 3 months) early in a relationship sounds like it can be very exciting. Ask her casually "out of curiousity who else likes u?"... Sounds like shes honest if she told you about the flowers, maybe this was her way of letting u know that they don't mean anything to her.
Hmmm it sounds odd, or it could of been from someone else. Co-worker, friend, or family member. I have bought stuff like this for my friends or family for their birthday. Also seems you are jealous, but why? You yourself said you don't want to start a relationship? Not to be mean but maybe someone else does. And it's her house she can do what she wants. If you were boyfriend girlfriend then yes I would of told you about the flowers.
When u go away for 3 months, do u not want to have a relationship because u don't trust females or u don't trust urself? If u like her, say it man. Before its to late. Long term relationship (especially only 3 months) early in a relationship sounds like it can be very exciting. Ask her casually "out of curiousity who else likes u?"... Sounds like shes honest if she told you about the flowers, maybe this was her way of letting u know that they don't mean anything to her.
I don't think that dating someone for 3 months, then not seeing them for 3 months will go very well. It's asking a lot of someone too early on in my opinion. I did tell her that I'd be into the idea of more serious relationship when I get back, whether with her or someone else.
Hmmm it sounds odd, or it could of been from someone else. Co-worker, friend, or family member. I have bought stuff like this for my friends or family for their birthday. Also seems you are jealous, but why? You yourself said you don't want to start a relationship? Not to be mean but maybe someone else does. And it's her house she can do what she wants. If you were boyfriend girlfriend then yes I would of told you about the flowers.
because i don't want anyone i like to like anyone else. it's not really easy to choose to not let stuff bother me. it just does.
because i don't want anyone i like to like anyone else. it's not really easy to choose to not let stuff bother me. it just does.
I get that. What does she say to the good relationship after the 3 months. Did she ever say, ok I want it. Or call me often or keep in touch while i'm gone?
because i don't want anyone i like to like anyone else. it's not really easy to choose to not let stuff bother me. it just does.
The bolded is a bit unrealistic, particularly since you said below...
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Originally Posted by FelixTheCat
It's nothing serious or exclusive, but I like her. I.
If you are not exclusive with her, she has a right to date other people and other people have a right to send her nice things. That's just the way it works.
You don't even know where those flowers came from and you only assumed that the bottle of wine came together with the flowers. All I see is yet another speculation and paranoia on your part and you are not even a couple yet.
Ugh, it must be exausting.
You don't even know where those flowers came from and you only assumed that the bottle of wine came together with the flowers. All I see is yet another speculation and paranoia on your part and you are not even a couple yet.
Ugh, it must be exausting.
because i don't want anyone i like to like anyone else. it's not really easy to choose to not let stuff bother me. it just does.
if you're not exclusive, she's not either... same rules apply. but it sounds like you are getting attached...
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I'll be out of state for 3 months, 2 months from now, so I'm not going to get in a real relationship. Do you think she should have hid the flowers and not said anything? I think anyone would be a little jealous.
