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Old 08-07-2011, 05:15 PM
 
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guys , i am really upset right now.

i know this guy through an internet chatting room. i knew a lot "friends" there, ppl usually talk on internet when work, killing time. so that means we have many "mutual friends" there.

we have soooooo much connections, so we sent photos to each other and he called me every day, told me that he likes me . and we were planning to meet up. even plan a future. pls dont say he is only into my looks, anyway we have soooooo much to talk, we can share our everrything. he called every night we could keep talking for 2-3hrs.

so 5 days ago, i aksed him to turn on the webcam. well, actually i look bad on webcam. but i m serious, i am a pretty woman even look better than photos.

but.......he seems not intereted, he was chatting with other ppl on internet chatting room and even watching football.

i was feeling so bad, i guess i looked upset. so after turn off the webcam,
i asked him, "so, i dont look good on webcam , u seems not interested? " his attitude changed, told me" i dont like overly sensitive woman".

am i really that overly sensitive? our first webcam chatting, i think at least he could have some respect to me .

so he stop calling me like usual. and he still chatting in internet with other ppl when he is working, and said he texted his female friends, bleh bleh bleh..

i am feeling bad, he dumped me that way??

1. look is not everything and i do look better than in webcam.
2. he didnt respect me by dumping me this way.

pls tell me , guys , anything wrong did i do ???????? well, he could tell me he didnt like me , but chatting with other ppl and watching foothing when see me in the webcam?? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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Old 08-07-2011, 05:19 PM
 
Location: Central Ohio
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guys , i am really upset right now.

i know this guy through an internet chatting room. i knew a lot "friends" there, ppl usually talk on internet when work, killing time. so that means we have many "mutual friends" there.

we have soooooo much connections, so we sent photos to each other and he called me every day, told me that he likes me . and we were planning to meet up. even plan a future. pls dont say he is only into my looks, anyway we have soooooo much to talk, we can share our everrything. he called every night we could keep talking for 2-3hrs.

so 5 days ago, i aksed him to turn on the webcam. well, actually i look bad on webcam. but i m serious, i am a pretty woman even look better than photos.

but.......he seems not intereted, he was chatting with other ppl on internet chatting room and even watching football.

i was feeling so bad, i guess i looked upset. so after turn off the webcam,
i asked him, "so, i dont look good on webcam , u seems not interested? " his attitude changed, told me" i dont like overly sensitive woman".

am i really that overly sensitive? our first webcam chatting, i think at least he could have some respect to me .

so he stop calling me like usual. and he still chatting in internet with other ppl when he is working, and said he texted his female friends, bleh bleh bleh..

i am feeling bad, he dumped me that way??

1. look is not everything and i do look better than in webcam.
2. he didnt respect me by dumping me this way.

pls tell me , guys , anything wrong did i do ???????? well, he could tell me he didnt like me , but chatting with other ppl and watching foothing when see me in the webcam?? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
He never dumped you.

You only thought you had a "relationship" but it never really existed.
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Old 08-07-2011, 05:20 PM
 
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Sorry. But meeting somebody online just ain't the way to go. And always remember that actions speak louder than words.
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Old 08-07-2011, 05:20 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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pls tell me , guys , anything wrong did i do ???????? well, he could tell me he didnt like me , but chatting with other ppl and watching foothing when see me in the webcam?? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
This says enough right here! You should not be upset, but glad that you found out what an idiot this dude is!!
Put him on block, and don`t look back. Good luck!
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Old 08-07-2011, 05:22 PM
 
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huh? he called me every day and planed a future, i thought at least it was a start
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Old 08-07-2011, 05:24 PM
 
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"chatting with other ppl and watching foothing when see me in the webcam?? "

it made me bad, am i really overly sensitive? he told me i am .
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Old 08-07-2011, 05:26 PM
 
Location: Florida
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He was out fishing, you were not the kind of fish he was interested in catching.

There was no dumping involved as there was no relationship.

Move on, forget the internet dating stuff, lots of built in problems there.
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Old 08-07-2011, 05:27 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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huh? he called me every day and planed a future, i thought at least it was a start
Yeah, and when it come right down to the web cam meeting, he started acting disinterested, so.. while chatting with others and watching football?
This sure doesn`t sound like a guy that seems to be that into planning a future. Sorry.
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Old 08-07-2011, 05:31 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Don't listen to him at all. Get rid of the idea of him and move on. It's understandable to get close even through the net and phone. But until you went out with him several times in person it will then mean something. I agree with yankee block him. Seems you found out he was a jerk. Remember there is someone for everyone. One man's/woman's trash is another's treasure.
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Old 08-07-2011, 05:32 PM
 
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wow, i thought there was no problem, i already told him i look bad on webcam and much better in real life. that is true.
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