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.....and he tells you that the first few women he was sexually involved with were paid for. That is, he had sex with prostitutes....most likely because he was simply socially incompetent with the opposite sex when he was younger and could not get a girlfriend, but didn't like the idea of having drunk sex with girls & decided to seek out hookers instead.
What would you say if he 'fessed up & told you the truth? Would you be understanding of his former self or would you run away like the dickens?
Inspired by Ron's "sex with men" thread. Oh, boy....the threads we cook up on this board!
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Women in other cultures, especially in Europe, are a more accepting when it comes to guys who have fooled around with prostitutes. Especially in some European countries it's almost seen as a right of passage. Once the man decides to settle down however, the past is the past.
I'm a man, but I would hope he could explain how he's changed and/or grown up since having sex with the prostitutes. I'd also be interested why he's telling his significant other about this unless one of the prostitutes gave him a disease. I'm of the belief that I don't need to know my SO's past sexual history unless it's going to affect the present.
I would analyze him and question him so as to know what his current viewpoints on women are and how he thinks this might have affected him. Depending on how mature his answers are and if he didn't get some disease, I would make an informed decision as to weather he was damaged goods or a decent human being.
But of course, I would analyze all men I would go out with, regardless of their sexual history.
Every guy pays for sex. As charlie sheen said. with a hooker you're paying her to leave afterwords. Anyone who has ever had sex ends up paying somehow.
Why would anyone feel the need to "fess up and tell the truth" about something like that......I think just telling a women that would turn her off.....I mean....why the hell would she even want to know???...some things are best kept under the hat.
Drunk sex is more forgivable than sex with hookers.
I'd run away.
Not all women would though.
Drunk sex with some random chick is better than sex with a paid sex worker who makes an effort to keep herself safe and gets tested regularly?
How illogical.
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