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I definitely think she's coming onto you. Maybe she feels "safe" doing so because you are married, thinking the flirtation is fun but harmless. Regardless, don't feed into it.
I am so glad I no longer have a company with employees in an office. Several women had been after me over time and they get very mean when they are told I am not interested. Later on I started to tell them I was gay and that stopped the harassment for a while. It took a visit from a gay friend and some obvious affection to put the advances to rest once and for all.
Good to know. So why does she make it so easy? Other women at work tend to do a readjust or a quick hand to the sternum.
See this is what I am talking about. She is no fool and appears to be careful about her appearance.
But what do I know, being a guy and all.
Maybe nobody has ever told her that her boobs are hanging out.
If it's deliberate, she could like the attention but not want any "action" as a result. I'm not sure why any self-respecting woman would want that kind of attention but it takes all kinds.
And anybody who thinks they're immune to temptation is just suffering from moral egotism.
While this is certainly true, there is a vast, vast difference from being attracted to someone at work and then actually cheating with that co-worker.
I find a man at work impossibly handsome but I have never been tempted to screw him, nor would I ever commit adultery. Just because someone is sexually attracted to someone at work doesn't mean in a million years that they'll ever cross that line and sleep with them.
Married people may be tempted a dozen times a week but many never succumb or come close to doing so.
I am so glad I no longer have a company with employees in an office. Several women had been after me over time and they get very mean when they are told I am not interested. Later on I started to tell them I was gay and that stopped the harassment for a while. It took a visit from a gay friend and some obvious affection to put the advances to rest once and for all.
Wow. Risky IMO. Office rumor: Pete is gay...I...don't...think...so.
Me? I state a clear fact:
Would you want to be involved with a man who cheats? I could cheat on you. Dumb on your part.
And personally, ruining my life is a real turn off. I got it good with a fabulous wife. Dumb on my part.
Oh I agree, but she is the problem, so to speak. I choose not to compain to HR. Why should I? We have our sexual harrasment training every year. The bottom line is a person has to be offended. Me? No. She, well guess who is flaunting?
And we're not real PC in my town. My former supervisor was quite forward towards me. I just enjoyed the attention. That's as far as it went. Hmm...come to think of it I like where I work.
Well OK you are probably right. She was wearing a red bra today. Not that it matters. Different outfit.
Complain about what? Nothing there to justify a complaint, on your part at least. I suspect you really are letting the ol' imagination get the better of you. You'd do well to simply be casually friendly, and stop with the checking out of the goods.
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