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Old 12-09-2014, 02:39 PM
 
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That's funny coming from a woman. Half of you on here have never been rejected in your lives. You expect men to do something that you yourself won't do. Lol.. hilarious.
I suppose some women don't get rejected... but some do. I've been rejected and it stinks, but it's not that bad. Then again, most guys are nice about it... even uncomfortable. The worst rejection I ever got was back when I was 20-years-old... a man who yelled in my face, "go the hell away" when all I did was walk up to him and smile... didn't even get to speak, lol. Kind of shook me for a while, but in the end, who cares. He was a grumpy Gus and I don't need that in my life. You have to shake off that stuff because those people don't really matter in the grand scheme of your life, so why let them hold power over you.

 
Old 12-09-2014, 02:50 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

The older you get, the less rejection on cold approach hurts (at least thats how I feel). You lose some, you win some. All together - worth it! Can't win if you don't try.

See, Hawaiiancoconut wants to make babies with me, so there is some good coming out of my approaches after all. Just harass him over months and he will either call the CD police or get weak.
 
Old 12-09-2014, 03:22 PM
 
Location: Springfield
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Guys, don't be scared! We don't hit you or spit at you if you talk to us.

What's the worst that can happen? Don't be pus s ies for Christ sakes!
You get called a p-ussy.

And then hit and spit upon.
 
Old 12-09-2014, 03:23 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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You get called a p-ussy.

And then hit and spit upon.
If that's what typically happens in your area, you need to move out of Springfield.
 
Old 12-09-2014, 03:23 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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You get called a p-ussy.

And then hit and spit upon.

Did you wear clothes?
 
Old 12-09-2014, 03:50 PM
 
Location: Springfield
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Did you wear clothes?
No, never.
 
Old 12-09-2014, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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[quote=oh-eve;37578663]I have approached most of my last bfs. They all told me later on that they would have never made the first step.

I have been rejected, numerous times. Only got dumped once though (last week).[/quote]

I thought you dumped the Drug Dealer last week
 
Old 12-09-2014, 04:21 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I suppose some women don't get rejected... but some do. I've been rejected and it stinks, but it's not that bad. Then again, most guys are nice about it... even uncomfortable. The worst rejection I ever got was back when I was 20-years-old... a man who yelled in my face, "go the hell away" when all I did was walk up to him and smile... didn't even get to speak, lol. Kind of shook me for a while, but in the end, who cares. He was a grumpy Gus and I don't need that in my life. You have to shake off that stuff because those people don't really matter in the grand scheme of your life, so why let them hold power over you.
That's so mean. Sorry that happened to you...
 
Old 12-09-2014, 04:24 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

The older you get, the less rejection on cold approach hurts (at least thats how I feel). You lose some, you win some. All together - worth it! Can't win if you don't try.

See, Hawaiiancoconut wants to make babies with me, so there is some good coming out of my approaches after all. Just harass him over months and he will either call the CD police or get weak.
Can't say I blame him. To be blunt, I want to make babies with you. Then again, I'm young enough to be your son.
 
Old 12-09-2014, 04:29 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Originally Posted by oh-eve View Post
I have approached most of my last bfs. They all told me later on that they would have never made the first step.

I have been rejected, numerous times. Only got dumped once though (last week).[/quote]

I thought you dumped the Drug Dealer last week
He dumped me before I could do it. So it's okay but hurt my ego. I was making too many comments and remarks about him smoking weed all day. So he ended it before i could say it.
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