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Old 12-09-2014, 10:19 PM
 
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Originally Posted by 49ersfan27 View Post
That's funny coming from a woman. Half of you on here have never been rejected in your lives. You expect men to do something that you yourself won't do. Lol.. hilarious.
Exactly. It is easy and the way of the coward to sit back and say “try harder and don’t be a wimp about it” when they never nor will they ever have to make or be in the position to be the one initiating that first move. If or when they ever have the cohones to do such a thing perhaps they will gain an appreciation of just how “easy” it actually is and reconsider their otherwise seriously misguided attitudes and overall incorrect impressions and assumptions.

 
Old 12-09-2014, 10:24 PM
 
Location: LA, CA/ In This Time and Place
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In Las Vegas, men outnumber women. To make matters even worse, a LOT of women out here are escorts, partiers, or just general drug addicts or women who just "dont have time for a relationship". The rest are frigid mormon women who "dont have sex"

I found myself a good girl and I lost her, she has easily and readily replaced me and has since forgotten all about me or even that I exist and now she is gone from me forever, she just uses me when its convenient for her

My life is over...there are no more available women not in Las Vegas, not anywhere
Don't be silly your life is not over. Plus do not allow her to use you, put an end to it . Take control of your life. Good luck finding a woman. I'm looking here in Los Angeles.
 
Old 12-09-2014, 10:29 PM
 
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Exactly. It is easy and the way of the coward to sit back and say “try harder and don’t be a wimp about it” when they never nor will they ever have to make or be in the position to be the one initiating that first move. If or when they ever have the cohones to do such a thing perhaps they will gain an appreciation of just how “easy” it actually is and reconsider their otherwise seriously misguided attitudes and overall incorrect impressions and assumptions.
I'm sorry, this just irked me. I'm a pretty attractive woman, from what I heard, and yet I had a crap time dating, and so have my friends. No women don't have it easier at times I think it's harder, if it dosent work it's her fault right?
 
Old 12-09-2014, 10:32 PM
 
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I'm sorry, this just irked me. I'm a pretty attractive woman, from what I heard, and yet I had a crap time dating, and so have my friends. No women don't have it easier at times I think it's harder, if it dosent work it's her fault right?
Then you HAVE made the first move and asked the guy out?
 
Old 12-09-2014, 10:34 PM
 
Location: Corona the I.E.
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That's not true stop following the crowd.They also look for a mommy replacement.lol!
You're right none of us guys got enough breast milk that's why we like them perky and large.
 
Old 12-09-2014, 10:35 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Exactly. It is easy and the way of the coward to sit back and say “try harder and don’t be a wimp about it” when they never nor will they ever have to make or be in the position to be the one initiating that first move. If or when they ever have the cohones to do such a thing perhaps they will gain an appreciation of just how “easy” it actually is and reconsider their otherwise seriously misguided attitudes and overall incorrect impressions and assumptions.
Think about this for a second guys....

Is this really worth getting upset over....aren't there more important things to be concerned about?

Where are your priorities?
 
Old 12-09-2014, 10:39 PM
 
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Then you HAVE made the first move and asked the guy out?
I have, when the guy was in a group pulled him, talked etc, it's a cop out in my book
 
Old 12-09-2014, 10:52 PM
 
Location: Corona the I.E.
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Exactly. It is easy and the way of the coward to sit back and say “try harder and don’t be a wimp about it” when they never nor will they ever have to make or be in the position to be the one initiating that first move. If or when they ever have the cohones to do such a thing perhaps they will gain an appreciation of just how “easy” it actually is and reconsider their otherwise seriously misguided attitudes and overall incorrect impressions and assumptions.
Good you noticed. Now realize that any advice from these folks should be taken with a grain of salt because they are speaking from limited experience.

I try to give advice from the perspective of someone who had challenges dating as a young guy, because I did. So I don't throw out " Stop being a wussy and get the digits young man! " Really great advice for someone that has social anxiety issues

Find a woman that you like to talk to, and just ask her out for coffee.

The irony here is Women want a respectful, caring man that listens to them. God forbid they listen too much because now they are clingy and a " Nice Guy " that gets friendzoned.

This is entertaining and I really enjoy this forum

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Old 12-09-2014, 10:59 PM
 
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I'm sorry, this just irked me. I'm a pretty attractive woman, from what I heard, and yet I had a crap time dating, and so have my friends. No women don't have it easier at times I think it's harder, if it dosent work it's her fault right?
That depends on where you live.

A woman complaining in Atlanta or Memphis has a point, but a woman complaining in LA or Seattle doesn't. A woman under 40 (outside of Jackson, MS) has no point unless she is trying to date a black man.

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Old 12-09-2014, 11:00 PM
 
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I have, when the guy was in a group pulled him, talked etc, it's a cop out in my book
As a protocol then, you never ever do the asking and the guy must always be the asker. Got it. All you do so is sit back and wait to be approached. Must be nice.

You have absolutely no appreciation of being in the position of doing the asking. It ain’t always as easy as you apparently think it is by any means and if you ever did be the one doing the asking you would have a decidedly different attitude about those that actually do the asking for the date.

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