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Old 04-01-2013, 05:28 PM
 
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Sounds like this guy is very....INSECURE! Don't do the push pull method on this girl because she will walk away. She probably has options, so you better put your big boy pants on and pursue her.
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Old 04-01-2013, 08:37 PM
 
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I don't know if I consider emotional push and pulling playing games but sometimes it is the only way I find to deal with the opposite sex.

I am still dating the same girl I had talked about a couple months ago, but right now, it is at a point where the only way I can keep things going is by pushing and pulling emotionally

We just had a conversation last Saturday about our dates, expectations and she said that she liked everything about me, that she thinks we have potential, and I agree, I thought it was a great conversation and I felt good after we talked

But then, the behavior suddenly becomes inconsistent, so the only way I find to keep things interesting is by "creating some tension" and then "pulling". This time, it will have to be an entire week without any communication and I don't feel bad about it.

What is your opinion on pushing and pulling?
I think it's juvenile. A turn off.
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Old 04-02-2013, 05:39 AM
 
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Ummm you've dredged up an 18 month old thread.
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Old 04-02-2013, 10:00 PM
 
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The solution is simple. Meet other women, do not limit yourself or play her games. She needs to know you can drop her like a bad habit.
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