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I was tempted to ask it! But then I thought maybe he'd be uncomfortable with it
Doubt will always be there when we are challenged. "What if I don't get the job...what if that career is difficult...what if I crash my car when I take it out of the garage today..." We wouldn't go too far if we didn't do anything that required risk.
Good for you. That's great. You took charge and kept serving the ball back to him. I think the fact that you said you wanted to ride the subway with him will show him you are interested in him.
Hope it works out for you.
Thank you!! But he's slow I'm not sure he realized that I'm interested
I love having crushes. But only from a very far distance. Because then I don't have to deal with the whole mixed signals thing. I can just love him without worry however way I want in my mind.
Well that was my plan at first! Just admire him whenever I see him and keep it moving but then he started all the staring and the talking etc...
Hey cakeitup. If you're really serious, you know, it's not that big of a deal to tell him you like him and want to get to know him better. Rejection is also not that big of a deal. Either way, having clarity is so much better than mixed signals and wondering. None of us here can read his mind and that's the truth (even though I'm an optimist and believe that he does like you).
It is true that being sure is always better than wondering but I won't risk telling him now that I have a crush on him because I don't want to lose everything, he has a nice personality I'd want to at least keep our friendship
It is true that being sure is always better than wondering but I won't risk telling him now that I have a crush on him because I don't want to lose everything, he has a nice personality I'd want to at least keep our friendship
very rarely do good looking guys go after girls not as good looking as them... Especially if they do not know the girl. sorry but chances are that he is not interested in you. If he is so aggressive he would have asked you out already. If he asks you out, id be suspect about his motives
I really don't know... if he wasn't interested why all the staring, and talking, and why would he know what time/days I come/leave the gym
he's just the most ununderstandable man I've ever seen
Good looking is one attribute, but chemistry is what ultimately draws people together. You can have chemistry with someone not as good looking as someone else and find yourself attracted to the person you experience that chemistry with, instead.
Had I not personally experienced it myself on a few occasions I wouldn't have believed it, but it is true, and it does and can happen. I'm not saying it always happens, I'm saying it's not as rare as you might think.
A beautiful woman (or a handsome man) can become less attractive as you get to know them. And a more plain woman/man can become more attractive over time. It just depends on several factors, but chemistry is at or near the top of the list.
I really don't know... if he wasn't interested why all the staring, and talking, and why would he know what time/days I come/leave the gym
he's just the most ununderstandable man I've ever seen
No disrespect, but how old are you? You do realize that people will stare and talk at you and he or she may or may not be interested. If I were you, I would casually ask what he did over the weekend; or you could ask what he is doing this weekend. Your goal isn't to get a date with him for the weekend. Your goal is to gain more insight into him, ie if he hangs with his girlfriend.
You're going to have to take ownership if you want to make some happen. At this point you're guessing and sitting back waiting for him to come to you. Give that up.
You're going to have to take ownership if you want to make some happen. At this point you're guessing and sitting back waiting for him to come to you. Give that up.
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If you're really serious, you know, it's not that big of a deal to tell him you like him and want to get to know him better. Rejection is also not that big of a deal. Either way, having clarity is so much better than mixed signals and wondering. None of us here can read his mind and that's the truth (even though I'm an optimist and believe that he does like you).
