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A "honey fix"...I'm so using that now. Sometimes just the sound of my husband's voice will calm me down or comfort me in just a split second...I would also have issue with not talking every day.
I don't talk to guys about their sexual preferences as a rule but I have to say, I've never heard of a dude who liked that particular thing who wasn't gay or at least curious about boys. I know you're not trying to judge him for his kink, but truly, if it makes you feel "funny", you probably are thinking correctly.
And as for the guy who said "women's intuition" is a myth? Dude, that's a stupid premise you've got working there. Every person has their own "gut" feeling...sometimes we can explain it clearly, sometimes (oftentimes) we can't explain it. One of the benefits of getting older is that we, hopefully, learn to trust it. Sometimes my "gut" is emotionally based, but many times it based on what my intellect is telling me. Most times though, it is a combination of experience, self preservation, emotion, knowledge etc. hence the comprehensive term "gut"!
If our OP says she's not sure about something, and after gathering opinions and other information, she's still not sure? Well, that "gut" thing is going to come in handy. I believe there should be reservations here b/c of the teacher to his kids thing, the anal thing, the texting thing...
Oh, and to the other guy who said he's going slow b/c he was burned??? Dude, we do not have any information to support your comments. That's just nuts!!
Like all the others have posted, I say run fast and far! He has more issues than you realized and he cannot change enough to make you happy. I also agree that I have never met a straight man without some kinky traits who wanted it anal.
I don't know - I've known some straight guys who like that - it's about the way it feels not about sexuality.
Anyway - maybe he is into you, maybe he isn't. Maybe he likes you as much as he is capable. But all that doesn't matter if your needs aren't getting met. So many people spend so much time trying to figure out if the person they love/like feels the same way - and trying to figure out what all their signals mean, etc. But all that is bedside the point. If you don't feel like you are getting enough out of the relationship - then it's not working for you. I'm not saying people need to be more selfish - but people need to be aware when they are unhappy in a relationship. If you are unhappy - and it's not looking like there is going to be a way to make you happy - you need to move on.
Oh, I was also wondering why he is divorced? I mean, triplets is a big deal so there must have been a compelling reason either on his part or his ex-wife's...just curious if it has any bearing on the current relationship...
I don't know - I've known some straight guys who like that - it's about the way it feels not about sexuality.
Anyway - maybe he is into you, maybe he isn't. Maybe he likes you as much as he is capable. But all that doesn't matter if your needs aren't getting met. So many people spend so much time trying to figure out if the person they love/like feels the same way - and trying to figure out what all their signals mean, etc. But all that is bedside the point. If you don't feel like you are getting enough out of the relationship - then it's not working for you. I'm not saying people need to be more selfish - but people need to be aware when they are unhappy in a relationship. If you are unhappy - and it's not looking like there is going to be a way to make you happy - you need to move on.
I do not agree with you on this one. In order to explore into the realm of anal, you have to be bi-curious at least. I think most guys would agree that you have gay tendencies to do such a thing. We are, for the most part, raised to be homophobic. UNLESS, they were molested and or forced to do this sort of thing. In which case, he could have even deeper issues that the OP may want to avoid.
I do not agree with you on this one. In order to explore into the realm of anal, you have to be bi-curious at least. I think most guys would agree that you have gay tendencies to do such a thing. We are, for the most part, raised to be homophobic. UNLESS, they were molested and or forced to do this sort of thing. In which case, he could have even deeper issues that the OP may want to avoid.
Well - I think there is a difference between wanting to have a penis inside of you or having a finger. Sorry to be so graphic - but I think there is a difference. The one guy that I knew that really liked anal penetration was bi - but mostly straight.
Well - I think there is a difference between wanting to have a penis inside of you or having a finger. Sorry to be so graphic - but I think there is a difference. The one guy that I knew that really liked anal penetration was bi - but mostly straight.
Right. A gay man wants to have sex with another man. A straight man who wants prostate stimulation from a woman isn't gay. A lot of guys bristle at this because they find the idea of being the "taker" instead of the "giver" during sex demeaning, which it isn't. People just generally want to do what feels good to them. It may not be for everyone, but what other people do in the privacy of their own bedrooms doesn't really affect you, anyway.
Last edited by fleetiebelle; 01-06-2012 at 02:45 PM..
I think I missed the memo. Anal penetration here means the male gets it
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