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Old 02-28-2012, 09:46 AM
 
Location: West Los Angeles
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Asian women love men with money, race and age don't matter at all. and this is not stereotype

I am an Asian man from Beijing
Well that does sound like a stereotype haha (but hey, it's the internet). I hear what you're saying, but I'd say the majority of them are more interested in status than money. For example, an asian girl would rather date a lawyer who makes $50k with $100k in student loans (which is very common these days) than an electrician who makes $75k with no debt.

And I'd argue that race = status to many women. White men = status, and not just to them but to their parents, meaning their parents encourage them to date white men.

 
Old 02-28-2012, 09:57 AM
 
Location: North Hollywood
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I actually see the reason Asian women why they are in love with white guys. White guys have bodies that are just hot as ****. But personally, its the media and the environment plays a BIG role why asian women go after white men. But I still love asian men as well. In fact, I was in love with 2 asian guys that did NOT fit the sterotype of a asian guy and I also liked some geeky ones too.
But never again will I EVER GO out OF MY way to get with a white guy. EVER.

I am an Asian woman.
So it's a physical thing? I've heard many Asian women say to me they don't like Asian guys cos they're shorter than white guys. I've been on dates with Asian-American women are 5'7"+ who don't like Asian men at all.

What if the men are the same physically as white guys? In UK the Indian women are not into white guys on the whole - Indian guys there are as tall as white guys. I'm 5'10" & I'm the shortest guy in my family. My tallest brother is 6'3".
 
Old 02-28-2012, 10:02 AM
 
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So it's a physical thing? I've heard many Asian women say to me they don't like Asian guys cos they're shorter than white guys. I've been on dates with Asian-American women are 5'7"+ who don't like Asian men at all.

What if the men are the same physically as white guys? In UK the Indian women are not into white guys on the whole - Indian guys there are as tall as white guys. I'm 5'10" & I'm the shortest guy in my family. My tallest brother is 6'3".
I guess it is just personal preference, I am not very attracted to Asian women at all, but most of my chinese friends only date east asian girls ( but not Vitnamese, Philipino or Thai). Most of us are not attracted girls with darker skin
 
Old 02-28-2012, 10:05 AM
 
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So it's a physical thing? I've heard many Asian women say to me they don't like Asian guys cos they're shorter than white guys. I've been on dates with Asian-American women are 5'7"+ who don't like Asian men at all.

What if the men are the same physically as white guys? In UK the Indian women are not into white guys on the whole - Indian guys there are as tall as white guys. I'm 5'10" & I'm the shortest guy in my family. My tallest brother is 6'3".
Actually East Asians are about same height as South Europeans, only Southern Chinese, Tibetans and Southeast asians are significantly shorter than other ethnicities.

I am 180cm, slight above average in Beijing
 
Old 02-28-2012, 10:07 AM
 
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So it's a physical thing? I've heard many Asian women say to me they don't like Asian guys cos they're shorter than white guys. I've been on dates with Asian-American women are 5'7"+ who don't like Asian men at all.

What if the men are the same physically as white guys? In UK the Indian women are not into white guys on the whole - Indian guys there are as tall as white guys. I'm 5'10" & I'm the shortest guy in my family. My tallest brother is 6'3".
lol. really ?cause I heard the average height of South Asians are like 165cm, but I am not sure about British Indians
 
Old 02-28-2012, 10:13 AM
 
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Well that does sound like a stereotype haha (but hey, it's the internet). I hear what you're saying, but I'd say the majority of them are more interested in status than money. For example, an asian girl would rather date a lawyer who makes $50k with $100k in student loans (which is very common these days) than an electrician who makes $75k with no debt.

And I'd argue that race = status to many women. White men = status, and not just to them but to their parents, meaning their parents encourage them to date white men.
ennn, not really. Asian women are most realistic and materialist women, sure social status helps but money is definitly the top thing for them Most Asian women would marry a black millionaire than a white middle class man
 
Old 02-28-2012, 10:16 AM
 
Location: USA
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I guess it is just personal preference, I am not very attracted to Asian women at all, but most of my chinese friends only date east asian girls ( but not Vitnamese, Philipino or Thai). Most of us are not attracted girls with darker skin
"only date east asian girls ( but not Vitnamese, Philipino or Thai)"
Class related or just how dark? I guess if your working Class and out in the sun your going to be dark so that may be a rhetorical question

I have friends from China, Bejing and Hong Kong specifically, that visit here and say the same thing, except they would only marry a Chinese woman. I don't think they would mind dating an American woman though, but probably not for marriage.
 
Old 02-28-2012, 10:19 AM
 
Location: where people are either too stupid to leave or too stuck to move
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Scientifically, "race" doesn't even exist
if does if society says it does (unfortunately)
 
Old 02-28-2012, 10:22 AM
 
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"as well, as Asian men married to Black American women" I have yet to meet an Asian Man married to a Black Woman. Boyfriend/Girlfriend, yes. Percentage wise this is probably still very low. Has to be less much less then 1% of all married couples even in California
A few years ago, I went to dinner in China Town and I saw a black woman (dark complected might I add) with a Chinese man and their baby (not sure if they were married or not). They were having dinner with the man's family. I haven't seen anything like it since, but it was beautiful.
 
Old 02-28-2012, 10:25 AM
 
Location: North Hollywood
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lol. really ?cause I heard the average height of South Asians are like 165cm, but I am not sure about British Indians
A lot of Indians are malnourished - if you took those same Indians and raised them in a western country with a proper diet, they'll grow up just as tall as white people. My family's from north India (Punjabi) , and they're taller than South Indians.

I have a Singaporean-Chinese friend and she told me that a lot Chinese girls there go for Punjabi men because they are taller and pale skinned than the Tamil Indians (who are pretty dark).
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