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When it was over, he said he thought, "That's it?"
Correct. Fireworks don't go off. It's not that big of a deal. Take your time. You don't have to justify your reasons and you shouldn't care if they think "something" is wrong with you.
In general, being a virgin at 21 is a turn off for most women (I don't care what they say), because that 21 year-old virgin often carries the stink of desperation on him. There's nothing a woman hates more than desperation. However, your very laid back (too laid back!) attitude probably exempts you from this general turnoff.
If I were you, I would date more. The reward (love) is wonderful. Yes, dating can be a hassle, but go into it not expecting much other than getting to know someone a little better, and you'll often have a good time even if you don't "click" with someone. I appreciate your not wanting to lead women on and then dump them, but you should know after just one or two dates if you have a future with a prospective girlfriend. You're not getting anyone's hopes up much after just a date or two.
But posting a poll about this trivial issue SCREAMS of insecurity and self-absorption. Also blithely announcing "I Know for a fact I am very good looking" just wrecks of the same things.
No one on earth cares that you've never had sex except you.
I'm a 21 year old virgin, and I'm male. But I know for a fact that I'm very good looking. I'm VERY tall. No I'm not really religious, and I'm straight. I've had opportunities to to lose it before but I declined every time, I'm in no rush to lose my virginity unless it's to someone I really love. Why should I be?
That having been said, I haven't really dated enough to have ever been in "love," and I'm getting a little old to say that. I want to be with someone, but the dating process is such a hassle, I just don't feel the drive to start dating someone unless we really "click" before I even ask her out, which is a very rare occurrence. Like, why make the effort and jump thru all the hoops if it isn't a sure thing, if there really isn't anything there? Perhaps I simply don't have enough patience to give myself proper time to develop feelings for a girl. I also am very bad at hurting others, I don't like to risk hurting a girl by dating her, not developing stronger feelings for her, and dumping her.
I'm not the kind of guy who will check out a beautiful girl, hit on her, and then try to "get laid," (unless I'm drunk which doesn't happen too much)
Dont worry about being a virgin. Im only a year older than you, I lost my virginity when I was 16. Truthfully I wish I had waited a little longer than hooking up with a girl at a high school party
If a girl comes along, she'll come along trust me. Dont worry about it
Nothing risked, nothing gained. You need to step out away from your comfort zone and live a little. I didn't go humping everything that crossed my patch either and I still had a lot more fun before I ever turned 21 yrs old....and I rarely ever drank and never in my life been drunk. So ask someone out and start living life a little.
Being full of yourself doesn't get you very far with the good women of the world.
It actually does, if it's warranted, in Southern California...and maybe in South Florida...just going by teenage year observations. LOL.
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