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Your cronies only confirmed what they already knew.
When you have to lower yourself to a stalkers standards, its already over.
No, you're wrong about this. People make mistakes. And, when they get down the road a little bit, they start doubting their memory or senses of what happened. And she will refine the lie. She will skip the facts that caught her up in the first place. Memories will fade. Her friends will come forward to lie for her.
But, when the PI sends a report showing her credit card reserving the Motel 6 room or a photo of her coming out of his place at 7AM and she's supposed to be at a sales meeting in Tulsa, there is no euphoric recall of the relationship. And, he can turn the dogs loose on her in court if that is his choice without second thoughts.
Also, she is less able to trash him with her family or his. He has the proof. She will just keep her mouth shut. Otherwise, it is a he said she said and she will tell everyone he was paranoid and abusive and all the othr BS these cheating b****** say.
Ok so my partner's co worker is having an emotional breakdown. Maybe a mid life crisis? He and his wife have been married 21 years, they have 2 children the youngest is a jr in high school. The husband has a short temper and is a "pain in the a$$" as my partner so eliquently puts it. He has been confiding in my partner, telling him he thinks his wife is cheating but he doesn't know what to do. My partner (mr. detective) mentioned that he could pull up his phone bill and track phone numbers to see if there is an odd number that continuously shows up. So the guy pulls the phone bill and sees a strange number, he calls it and finds out it is a sargent serving in afganistan. The wife adopted a soldier over seas? I've never heard of that but he confronted her and she said she did but that it wasn't a big deal. The husband believes her and they decide they want to try to work on their marriage. The wife says she is stressed out and just needs to get out of town for a little bit. She goes to Vegas for the weekend....
She comes back a week later and the husband feels that something is "off" He decides he needs to get spyware to their computer. He orders it and now he has access to all of her accounts. He is hacked into facebook and sees his wife chatting live with some random man. The chats start to get sexual and very graphic. The husband finds out that while his wife was in vegas she was sexually gratified without intercourse by this man. They continue to get graphic and the husband is reading the whole thing as it's unfolding.
As of today the wife doesn't know that the husband knows. I am hoping that he will confront her soon because if he keeps holding it in he may do something very destructive. Anyway I had no idea that you could hack into someone's computer like that. All you cyper cheaters better wisen up!
If he goes destructive she brought it on herself... poor man. He should file for divorce though, or open his own end of the marriage and have his own gal on the side...
No, you're wrong about this. People make mistakes. And, when they get down the road a little bit, they start doubting their memory or senses of what happened. And she will refine the lie. She will skip the facts that caught her up in the first place. Memories will fade. Her friends will come forward to lie for her.
But, when the PI sends a report showing her credit card reserving the Motel 6 room or a photo of her coming out of his place at 7AM and she's supposed to be at a sales meeting in Tulsa, there is no euphoric recall of the relationship. And, he can turn the dogs loose on her in court if that is his choice without second thoughts.
Also, she is less able to trash him with her family or his. He has the proof. She will just keep her mouth shut. Otherwise, it is a he said she said and she will tell everyone he was paranoid and abusive and all the othr BS these cheating b****** say.
The guy did not tell his wife that he knows because he thinks she will leave him. So he does not want to end the marriage.
The guy is clearly insane and will continue to "snoop" even though he already has enough proof of what he needs. My partner has said that he can't help him anymore.
One of the girls at work did this with her husband and found out more than she wanted to know.
Yep, exactly. Listen up, people. The Truth-will-set-you-free theory is a big myth!
Ask yourself before poking around if you truly want to know and if you find out your fears are actualized, do you honestly intend to leave the relationship?
Your partner should have kept well away from any of this. He might just have the psychological repercussions on his head if his workmate kills his wife. Shame on him for knowing this guy has a temper yet encourages him to spy.
No-one should get involved in someone else's affairs, it's never right and always ends badly for one or more parties.
Yes, he should have been smarter and told the guy he did not wish to discuss it or get involved.
there are also apps you can install to track every move someone makes with their phone, log their texts, log calls, etc.. if you don't want to be caught by technology today, move to a high desert cave with no modern appliances.
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