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Can't vote in the poll because I don't consider recipients of massages to be lazy jerks.
None of the answers in parentheses are flattering, as a joke. I even forced myself to portray my relationship as one devoid of love altogether. It isn't. In fact we give lots of hugs and kisses and do lots of cuddling... oh yeah, and the "hair play" thing TheImportersWife was talking about
It's just something about massages I'm not into in any way, shape, or form...
Fortunately, there are plenty of men willing to give massages and to many it's even their pleasure. Bite ME!
Well, it IS a pleasure -- up to a point.
The fact is that I LOVE giving massages -- sometimes it's as simple as someone sitting in front of you and you're rubbing their shoulders for a while, not just circling your hands but starting out slow (I don't believe in just DIGGING into a sore muscle, you have to work up to that stuff) and then gradually putting on the squeeze...
...traps upper, traps medial, out into the rhombi (major and minor), along both inferior and superior scapula (stiff thumbs along the vertebral border and infraspinatus can make a woman go weak in the knees), teres major and minor and upper lats, out to the delts... up the neck, across the occipital area of the skull... even along the jawline and temporal muscles, and afterward a scalp massage.
And it can be slow and casual; it's for a combination of relaxation and shared tenderness. If the hands get tired, switch to the palms or stiff fingertips; if the arms overall get tired, you can just say "I'm taking a break" and put your arms around them, pull them to you and chill.
After all, it's not a CHORE, it's a mutual pleasure -- key word: MUTUAL.
Or purely medicinal massages, actual MASSAGES for the sake of a tired, aching body overall...
Or erotic massages, at first concentrating on a combination of muscles and skin, teasing, tickling, touching, poking and prodding... working out kinks here (and catering to some kinks there ), experimenting with TOUCH all over the place and in myriad ways. The variety is endless.
But...
WANTING to RECEIVE that once in a while and discovering that your partner is unwilling to comply...
Nope; colour it any way you want, but it's a different story
The fact is that I LOVE giving massages -- sometimes it's as simple as someone sitting in front of you and you're rubbing their shoulders for a while, not just circling your hands but starting out slow (I don't believe in just DIGGING into a sore muscle, you have to work up to that stuff) and then gradually putting on the squeeze...
...traps upper, traps medial, out into the rhombi (major and minor), along both inferior and superior scapula (stiff thumbs along the vertebral border and infraspinatus can make a woman go weak in the knees), teres major and minor and upper lats, out to the delts... up the neck, across the occipital area of the skull... even along the jawline and temporal muscles, and afterward a scalp massage.
And it can be slow and casual; it's for a combination of relaxation and shared tenderness. If the hands get tired, switch to the palms or stiff fingertips; if the arms overall get tired, you can just say "I'm taking a break" and put your arms around them, pull them to you and chill.
After all, it's not a CHORE, it's a mutual pleasure -- key word: MUTUAL.
Or purely medicinal massages, actual MASSAGES for the sake of a tired, aching body overall...
Or erotic massages, at first concentrating on a combination of muscles and skin, teasing, tickling, touching, poking and prodding... working out kinks here (and catering to some kinks there ), experimenting with TOUCH all over the place and in myriad ways. The variety is endless.
But...
WANTING to RECEIVE that once in a while and discovering that your partner is unwilling to comply...
Nope; colour it any way you want, but it's a different story
If it's the second one, I give and then I go shopping after.
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That was beautiful.
