Boyfriend suddenly hates kissing?! (dating, girls, love, sex)

[hope5]

So I've been dating this guy for a few months now...
The first few weeks he'd hold my hand (like in the car, or when we're walking down the street...) and we would kiss, I'd kiss him "hi" and "bye" every time, and he'd actually ask for it...
Though even back then when we kissed it was only a peck...We'd occasionally make out but that didn't happen much either...
He used to have this habit of waking up in the middle of the night, and just like that he'd start french kissing me...I was usually too asleep to even realize what's going on so I doubt I was a great kisser, but I liked when he did that.

Now, he holds my hand maybe once a month when he's in a really good mood, and it seems like he hates kissing me.
Last time we made out was maybe a month ago...He completely stopped the kissing me in the middle of the night thing...he wouldn't kiss me even during foreplay!(which is making it pretty hard for me to "get in the mood" tbh )

I'm quite upset about that but I thought "maybe he's just not in the mood lately"...so I let it go.

But this morning...he took me to work after I spent the night at his place.As usual, before I got out of the car I thanked him for the ride and turned to kiss him (just a "thank you" peck) and he.......turned his head away.So it landed on his cheek and it got awkward. but I think I made it weirder when I turned his head with my hands and kissed him again...

I don't get it...what could have changed?
How come he didn't have a problem kissing before but now I can't even give him a lousy thank you kiss?!
And things have been great between us lately (except for the kissing part), after a mini break up a few weeks back...we had a little "break" for 2 weeks but things have gotten a lot better since we got back together...
So how come he wouldn't kiss me anymore?
It made me feel extremely uncomfortable this morning when he turned his head away...

Would the guys around here make some sense out of this?!please?

[Red On The Noodle]

Not a guy, but if he won't kiss during sex, that'd be a deal breaker for me. Have you asked him why don't you kiss me anymore, do I have bad breath or something?

[Trackwatch]

Could it be your breath? Maybe is really isn't into girls?

[8635angelvalley]

Originally Posted by hope5

So I've been dating this guy for a few months now...
The first few weeks he'd hold my hand (like in the car, or when we're walking down the street...) and we would kiss, I'd kiss him "hi" and "bye" every time, and he'd actually ask for it...
Though even back then when we kissed it was only a peck...We'd occasionally make out but that didn't happen much either...
He used to have this habit of waking up in the middle of the night, and just like that he'd start french kissing me...I was usually too asleep to even realize what's going on so I doubt I was a great kisser, but I liked when he did that.

Now, he holds my hand maybe once a month when he's in a really good mood, and it seems like he hates kissing me.
Last time we made out was maybe a month ago...He completely stopped the kissing me in the middle of the night thing...he wouldn't kiss me even during foreplay!(which is making it pretty hard for me to "get in the mood" tbh )

I'm quite upset about that but I thought "maybe he's just not in the mood lately"...so I let it go.

But this morning...he took me to work after I spent the night at his place.As usual, before I got out of the car I thanked him for the ride and turned to kiss him (just a "thank you" peck) and he.......turned his head away.So it landed on his cheek and it got awkward. but I think I made it weirder when I turned his head with my hands and kissed him again...

I don't get it...what could have changed?
How come he didn't have a problem kissing before but now I can't even give him a lousy thank you kiss?!
And things have been great between us lately (except for the kissing part), after a mini break up a few weeks back...we had a little "break" for 2 weeks but things have gotten a lot better since we got back together...
So how come he wouldn't kiss me anymore?
It made me feel extremely uncomfortable this morning when he turned his head away...

Would the guys around here make some sense out of this?!please?

It might be time for a trip to the dentist

[skel1977]

Hmm could be tons of reasons.

Your breath stinks. He has lost interest. He started off kissing you because he wanted sex and now since he gets it on the regular he no longer needs to kiss. He has intimacy issues. He realized he likes kissing boys instead. He is not trying to "win" you anymore, he has already won.

Have you asked him why?

[darrensmooth]

lol...I love how its her hygiene that is the issue...could it not be that he just isn't that into her? have other guys declined kissing you in the past?

[HelloWorldItsMe]

Definitely, check the breath..but when I read this, I thought..maybe there is someone else. Maybe he is getting back his ex or found someone else he likes. Maybe even he thinks you are moving too fast. You said you all have only dated a few months and you talk about stay over and in the middle of the night. How often do you stay over there? I don't know how old you guys are...maybe he just is not ready for someone maybe as serious as you are. Then again it could be just the breath...make your teeth are brushed real well and mouth wash...but if after that and you KNOW your breath is not culprit then it maybe be one of the things I listed previously.

[D217]

Originally Posted by hope5

And things have been great between us lately (except for the kissing part), after a mini break up a few weeks back...we had a little "break" for 2 weeks but things have gotten a lot better since we got back together...
So how come he wouldn't kiss me anymore?

Not sure how things could have "gotten better" after the break if now he won't kiss you...

[reed067]

Originally Posted by Trackwatch

Maybe is really isn't into girls?

Pretty much my thoughts.

[Ruth4Truth]

Ask what the problem is. If the discussion doesn't go well--he hedges, avoids a straight answer, or gets angry--time to move on.