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I hate strip clubs. You lose money, never get any action, and **** off the gf if she finds out about it. It was fun when I was 21, but no so much anymore.
I personally think there is nothing wrong with going to the strip club. My hubby and I go together, its fun and it spicys up the bedroom lol. We go hand put drink and admire the beatiful women. We dont get lap dances (anymore lol), but you dont have to. The people watching is the best part. You can tell alot about a person by how they handle them selves in a strip club. Once an older women that worked an the diner down the street came in (she knew all the girls because they would go in and eat after work) and she got trashed and cornered this poor kid in a corner while the girls cheered her on and she gave this kid a lap dance, It was hilarious, she took her freakin teech out even. That kid was so embarressed, the whole place was crackin up. You never know what your going to see. Dont get me wrong it's not like we haunt strip clubs but once or twice a year we do go and its like a lil adventure. We go with about 5 other couples and some of our single friends and get our party on. If you are secure with yourself and your relationship then you have nothing to be ashamed of.
Look if you are single then go have fun. You only live once and you need to live every day as if its your last. There is nothing wrong with it and most men need a sexual outlet as a stress releiver and lets face it, it is not as easy for a man to just go out and get some as it is for a woman. So if going to the strip club helps with that then by all means go out and get you a few lap dances (just not near most airports lol).
Now fellas, if your not single and your women is not thrilled with you going to a strip club and you love her, then don't go. Is it really worth having her, not only lose respect for you but possibly lose trust in you as well? Probably not. If she is against it, see if she will go with you to see. If not then ask her to be the dancer. If she still wont, well then I am sorry but you are SOL and you'll have to stick to internet porn LOL.
Anyway, thats my 2 cents. I think sex is healthy and expressing your sexuality is even healthier. It makes me happy and it makes my hubby happy, isnt that what it's about, being happy.
A while back I had a co-worker ask me if I wanted to go with him to the local strip club to chill out.
I had another co-worker (who is female) who overheard the conversation comment something that sounded like she wouldn't respect anyone going to the strip club. I ended up not going cause something came up but I was wondering on her comment ever since.
I could understand if we were married it would be disrespectful to your wife, but both of us are single dudes. It only for fun and to have a drink or two.
What wrong with going to the club and relaxing after a long week of work? What are your thoughts ? Do you approve or disapprove?
Which leads to my second question.
Do any of your ladies out there go the strip clubs? and why? to have fun and chill out? Right?
I have been to strip clubs on several occasions in the past. Personally, I found them a mildly interesting study in human behavior, however, I did not enjoy them enough to have any desire or inclination to return of my own volition.
Let's face it, strip bars are not really designed to appeal to the female of the species. I would question the honesty or sexuality of any woman who said that she "enjoyed" going to them. If I want to look at female "parts" I can just take my clothes off in front of the bathroom mirror.
That having been said, I see no harm in any man, married or single patronizing such an establishment. As long as they behavior with some decorum in public, there is no harm done, IMHO.
My first experience definitely has set the standards high. I attended Jenna Jameson's Cabaret in Phoenix AZ. Wow! It was more of a talent show than anything else. The women were incredibly talented. They were upside down, on the ceiling. Talk about incredible body strength and coordination! I had a great time.
Now on the opposite end of the spectrum. A big group of friends and I went to a couple strip clubs in El Paso TX where its BYOB. We'd grab a case of beer and have the best time! Most of the time we weren't even aware of what was going on in the strip club bc as a group we were talking and laughing and having a great time!
Very recently I went to a very very ghetto strip club in small town Minnesota for a guy friends' bday. Wow! Talk about scummy. That was a scary experience. Smelly, creepy, scared I'd see a stripper I went to high school with and feel awkward (haha).
Strip clubs are a fun time once in a while. And if my bf wants to go to one I'm cool. Look but don't touch Plus, I'd probably want to go with him. It can be good entertainment.
'an I'm tellin' Dolla Bill too...this ain't no d--m ho house!
I wonder if anyone knows what line this movie is from lol.
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It's all good!
Plus, I'd probably want to go with him. It can be good entertainment.
